DMSI Journey

[ShanghaiKiwi]

I think the best part of running DMSI (for you) is dealing with/ridding yourself of the guilt and shame you have concerning your relationship with your STBXW, sex life, and perhaps women in general.

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Revised version:
I *totally* agree. I never saw the value in OGSF until I started this sub. I always felt like it stood for "oh God shut the f__ up" and I rolled my eyes when I heard people talking about it. But now I realise how important it is.

I don't want to lose all my values and good conscience and become a complete womanizer, but I would like to take my life back and be happy again. I also want to avoid wallowing in the shame of leaving my wife and look at it the way my family looks at it - a perfectly reasonable, justified and appropriate action to take.

Also, by the comment of being 32 years old - quite young - dealing with the fear of starting over and "behind." I think you'll find, in the end, you came out way ahead.

Thanks man that's encouraging