Yeah, I grew tired of taking time to flesh out my dating profiles with fun interesting banter etc. Writing girls, crafting messages with clear details from their actual profiles to show I'm legit interested in them besides their looks. And, in return, I got stuff like one word answers, confusion in what I was talking about meaning they copy pasted bullshit into their profiles as filler so what I referenced they didn't understand or actually like, and tons and tons of no responses. Mixed with a bunch that were actually involved and lying that they were single, I guess to check the market. One time one I really liked and talked back and forth with a girl, finally ended up meeting her. Drove like an hour plus to see her. Met her in person, we were together for like 5 minutes if that in person, she leaves. I drive home, on the way home her "boyfriend" sends me a text threatening me to stay away from her and never contact her again. She's either a cheater, or a psycho, no thanks. Overall, I've written a little over a few hundred on those sites, absolutely nothing in return but that one girl meeting up with me for minutes and all the nonsense that ensued.
Total complete waste of my time and money (money as of course men are expected to pay the bills at these places too) and made me feel awful about myself. Tried with 4 different sites, never again. Awful environment. Awful.
I'm convinced those sites are only beneficial to women. Women who want an ego boost by having instant validation and attention, but never actually DO anything about it. Or, advertising for cam shows and prostitutes and sugar babies, of which I saw a lot of. That's it. Zero benefit to men, especially since on top of all that bullshit we have to pay when women get to use services for free, which further lowers the quality of the women because they don't have to put any money on the line like we do.
Run and don't look back.
The only site I've had success on is a special site for HNW men seeking women, basically sugar babies. I put a profile on there to test a theory of mine, and I was right. On THAT site, I can sit back and I get tons and tons and tons of messages, and without paying a cent. Of course, I know the exact reason as to why the women are so keen, as my worth is all listed there. There's tons of young rockets that spam me like mad. I have hundreds of messages in my inbox there. Zero interest, obviously.
I think the whole online dating thing is dehumanising, personally. Maybe I'm just old fashioned.
Total complete waste of my time and money (money as of course men are expected to pay the bills at these places too) and made me feel awful about myself. Tried with 4 different sites, never again. Awful environment. Awful.
I'm convinced those sites are only beneficial to women. Women who want an ego boost by having instant validation and attention, but never actually DO anything about it. Or, advertising for cam shows and prostitutes and sugar babies, of which I saw a lot of. That's it. Zero benefit to men, especially since on top of all that bullshit we have to pay when women get to use services for free, which further lowers the quality of the women because they don't have to put any money on the line like we do.
Run and don't look back.
The only site I've had success on is a special site for HNW men seeking women, basically sugar babies. I put a profile on there to test a theory of mine, and I was right. On THAT site, I can sit back and I get tons and tons and tons of messages, and without paying a cent. Of course, I know the exact reason as to why the women are so keen, as my worth is all listed there. There's tons of young rockets that spam me like mad. I have hundreds of messages in my inbox there. Zero interest, obviously.
I think the whole online dating thing is dehumanising, personally. Maybe I'm just old fashioned.
