DMSI "Change is Good"

[SargeMaximus]

I've never been one to take comfort in the "Oh you're so high value that people are hating on you" thing. To me, if you're high value enough, you shouldn't be getting haters.

And yes, even celebrities have haters, but the people who like them far outweigh the haters, or else they wouldn't have such fame and careers.

I disagree with that. Jealousy and hate are emotions and we all have them. Question is whether you can keep them in check or simply let it go or don't let them dictate who you are. You may have high-value, that doesn't mean others will have them too. It can't be helped, not everyone is brought up equal and not everyone shares the same value.

One of the things about success is that you will always have somebody out there who will hate you for what you have and disagree with your success. (Talking about the ones who are the real deal) Heck, even when you are on that path trying to be successful, along the way, there will always be people who hate you for it too. In my opinion, one of the reason is that it reminds them how they have chosen to give up on things, in which you choose to stick and fight.

You can't control their hatred or jealousy, however, you certainly can control yours. Just don't let it bother you.

Yeah I wasn't talking about me being jealous or hateful, I'm just afraid someone in this company will get hating on me and cost me my career.

Granted, my own poor performance can do that as well, and if that were the case then that's on me. But I'm talking about getting successful and having people start trying to f*ck with me because they hate me or are jealous.

Like I said, yes it happens but the successful people more or less stay successful. It's never enough to bring them down.