10-21-2024, 07:30 AM
(10-20-2024, 01:03 PM)Frosted Wrote: My advice to most men who come here is to focus on healing and overcoming blockages, and basic self development like self esteem, confidence, self validation etc. These fundamental building blocks are the most important thing, and something you’re going to need not just for women, but for everything else in your life. Of course most men who need this advice will ignore it, but hopefully at least a couple take it to heart. OGSF, EPHRA, AM, SD etc are all good titles to focus your base.
If you’ve used attraction products in the past and are tired of getting hits but no results, then I recommend taking my advice and spending a couple years focusing on your base. You may lament at the “waste of time”, but I assure you it is worth it. The reality is that most guys are probably “wasting” their time getting hits with no results when using these programs anyways, so you might as well “waste” your time focusing on the basics.
Concur.
1. Most or all of us need to heal before we can be a healthy relationship partner. Whether that is friendship, FWB, romance, or even finding mentorship. There's a sequence that has been discussed recently; I believe it goes EHPRA - OGSF - SD. Of those, I've only done EHPRA, and v5 of that one, but it was tremendously beneficial. I think that sequence is a fantastic idea, and especially for those who have struggled with results.
2. I'm going out on a limb here. We will get better results from DMSI, et. al., if we are more healed and have that "base". Absent that, the outward presentation, conscious and subconscious, may attract the attention we want, but if there's nothing underneath the attention will fade rapidly.
TL;DR
First, build your "base". EPHRA-OGF-SD, in that order, is recommended for that purpose. If there no "there" there, they will look elsewhere.
