DMSI 3.3.2, OED, X124, PSEv3, etc.

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Hey Shannon,
Now that I'm finishing up my 14th cycle of DMSI and I'm just a few days short of 6 months of steady usage. Would this be a good time to take a break from DMSI and try one of the other subs, like the SDM?

How does one decide when the long-term use (like 6months of DMSI) is 'enough', or that you've gotten the bulk of the benefit that you can get this time around?

Thanks!

I think it would.

DMSI is designed so that it should be blatantly obvious what results you are going to achieve by the end of 3 months of using it.  Going beyond that is unlikely to get you different results; that'll be about as far as it can go.

That will not be true anymore once I turn on FRM 4.9+.  But for the time being, V3.3.2 and earlier, it is.

Well, several days ago, I officially discontinued DMSI 3.3.2. I ran it longer than was recommended and the effects had definitely tapered. Hopefully, the additional cycles I did, did not diminish its effectiveness.

So how long till the version with the new FRM comes out? I think I would really like that. 

So far of all your subs I've tried, I like the DMSI the best. And I do feel that the fear modulation has kind of faded a bit since how I was feeling it in the first month or so of using the sub.

btw: my wife has been pleased with the results of the experiment. Both of us being more attracted to each other has been great, plus having others respond to us as more attractive individuals has made her job easier and made many of my social interactions in business and stores and restaurants better as well. She is behaving younger and sexier and we are having a great time with that. 

It's interesting that the reaction I get sometimes takes a few minutes before it kicks in, and other times it has kicked in before I even notice it and the moment has passed and I only notice it in retrospect.

I am now starting in on SDM 5.75, probably should start a new thread for that when I get a chance. Shannon may be interested in my results because I'm 64. So far (3 days in) I'm liking it. 

Also, I had a recent accidental experience with PSE -- I will use this on our date nights sometimes. For about an hour or so before we "get down to it" I play it in the background and it definitely creates what we both perceive as a romantic feeling and warmth toward each other. Makes it easier to shift gears from that 'work day' feeling to a romantic encounter kind of feeling.

Yesterday, we had an unexpected visitor during our datenight prep time. I thought I had muted the sub, but I must have pressed the button twice because after the visitor (a young lady who was a notary helping us sign some loan papers). I know I'm not supposed to play it for people that don't know and don't consent, but this was a complete accident. Anyway, the scientific observations are as follows from this accidental experiment:
> She was very warm toward us both and smiled at both of us and looked us in the eyes a lot.
> She expressed a great deal of appreciation for everything we did
> She looked for things we had in common and we found many things 
> As the meeting (about an hour long) proceeded, she became more chatty and warm and smiley.
> As she left, she basically told us on her way out that we were the high point of her day and that she was very glad to have met us.
> Throughout the meeting we all felt very relaxed with one another like we were all old friends.

Resolved:
I will no longer try to use the mute button when guests come, I'll simply turn off the system so I can easily visually tell that it's off. I was being lazy because I didn't want to have to go through the several steps it would have cost me to get the thing turned back on after she left.