06-09-2020, 04:24 PM
Hi All, (ongoing off-label DMSI 3.3.2 experiments)
Day 4 of ASRB2, Cycle #12
Been continuing the basic night-time listening of the DMSI. Too little actual random social contact to be sure anything is happening, though I occasionally think I see something.
e.g. I had to go to the garden store yesterday for an 'emergency' pickup of some stakes since my chili plants were blowing down due to a surprise windstorm. The young gal that had given me her card and told me to 'call her' that I mentioned in previous posts was there, but back in the office. After I picked out the stakes I wanted I went to the checkout desk and the gal there was just about to check out my stakes when the gal saw me from the back office and came out to help check me out (eyes smiling, but wearing a mask). I was pretty surprised that she had gotten up from her desk to rush out and help me before the other gal (who was about to reach for my purchase). Interestingly, while handling the stakes and answering my questions about them, she seemed to intentionally flash a very nice engagement ring. So maybe she was looking for compliments on her ring or someone to ask about her engagement? Not sure, but the messages seemed to be mixed. Still, maybe she is now considering me a 'friend' cause I've been there a few times and she's been quite helpful...? My gut tells me that she feels something, though. The sniper? Not sure, but it's cool that I have someone that anxious to help me out when I shop there. And honestly, since I'm happily married, it is exactly this kind of attention that I've been hoping for... service with a tiny little 'zing'.
Been using the new SDM here and there a bit. I find it fairly effective, but it also seems to produce negative tension with the wife, if I'm not careful the tension swings to anger mode rather than warmth. This is very different from my experience with the PSEv3 -- when I play that one in the background she calms down and gets happy and friendly. Maybe, the latter blends better with the DMSI usage for episodic use? It has just been playing too many times when she gets overly intense and angry, which had, until recently been rare for her.
Thoughts?
Day 4 of ASRB2, Cycle #12
Been continuing the basic night-time listening of the DMSI. Too little actual random social contact to be sure anything is happening, though I occasionally think I see something.
e.g. I had to go to the garden store yesterday for an 'emergency' pickup of some stakes since my chili plants were blowing down due to a surprise windstorm. The young gal that had given me her card and told me to 'call her' that I mentioned in previous posts was there, but back in the office. After I picked out the stakes I wanted I went to the checkout desk and the gal there was just about to check out my stakes when the gal saw me from the back office and came out to help check me out (eyes smiling, but wearing a mask). I was pretty surprised that she had gotten up from her desk to rush out and help me before the other gal (who was about to reach for my purchase). Interestingly, while handling the stakes and answering my questions about them, she seemed to intentionally flash a very nice engagement ring. So maybe she was looking for compliments on her ring or someone to ask about her engagement? Not sure, but the messages seemed to be mixed. Still, maybe she is now considering me a 'friend' cause I've been there a few times and she's been quite helpful...? My gut tells me that she feels something, though. The sniper? Not sure, but it's cool that I have someone that anxious to help me out when I shop there. And honestly, since I'm happily married, it is exactly this kind of attention that I've been hoping for... service with a tiny little 'zing'.
Been using the new SDM here and there a bit. I find it fairly effective, but it also seems to produce negative tension with the wife, if I'm not careful the tension swings to anger mode rather than warmth. This is very different from my experience with the PSEv3 -- when I play that one in the background she calms down and gets happy and friendly. Maybe, the latter blends better with the DMSI usage for episodic use? It has just been playing too many times when she gets overly intense and angry, which had, until recently been rare for her.
Thoughts?
