01-20-2020, 11:37 AM
(01-20-2020, 10:31 AM)Shannon Wrote: The product description isn't a promise of what it will do when it is an experimental product, it's a description of the product's design goal. Experimental usually means we know we aren't there yet and we are working towards achieving that goal.
I understand the difference between design goals and actual outcomes. This is actually one of the reasons I was intrigued enough to try this DMSI 3.3.2. I guess, to be honest, I saw it as a way to introduce some new extra excitement into our relationship. It's been the same for some years now. Exciting and satisfying, but I'm having trouble introducing new experiences that don't cost a lot of money that can keep the zing alive for the both of us.
(01-20-2020, 10:31 AM)Shannon Wrote: The reason I keep warning people about this is because sooner or later I will release something that does what it's supposed to do well enough that exposing your wife, even your long term relationship wife you think you know, destroys the relationship. People aren't as simple as you may think. She has parts and pieces that would betray you if properly stimulated, and it is the same for you to her. I can't know for sure that this program will not, in its efforts to accomplish its goals, do that. That is my concern. I don't want that to happen, even once. That is part of why progress on this program is so slow - I have to creep up to the razor's edge of balance and then land right on it perfectly to make this program work, while being safe. That's not such an easy thing to do. So I take small steps in some cases, because overshooting the mark, even once, can't be undone. It is not wise to expose any woman to this with whom you wish to keep your relationship intact. You've been warned, and that is that.
I know my wife pretty well. We've been married 41 years. I knew her as a friend for 7 years before that. I knew and called her boyfriends friends of mine as well. I am close to her family and have known her friends both through her and independently as friends of my own. I actually 'hope' that this shakes something new loose. Nothing drastic, but if she were to discover she likes male attention or feel temptation, it might introduce some excitement into our relationship in that it would help her be more in touch with her feminine side. I recognize there's a little danger here, but I am being very vigilant -- checking in with her multiple times per day.
Also, I want you to know that the early effects of this sub are EXACTLY what I've been looking for in an aphrodisiac subliminal. In just a few hours of listening it has already enhanced our interactions and appreciation of one another. I may never run another sequence after these first 8 days or I may stop it early if I see something that gives me pause. In addition, I find this a fascinating experience and experiment because of the actual changes I'm seeing. It is quite powerful. Far more powerful than any sub I've previously used, and I've used several.
(01-20-2020, 10:31 AM)Shannon Wrote: If you have anything interesting to report, but you don't think it is appropriate for the forum, you can e-mail them to us on the back end, and Ben will make sure I get them. I can always use more feedback.
If you think you'd prefer my reports be offline, I can do that. I do like the forum software, it's easy to keep a 'journal', if you'd like to make this thread 'private' so it's just between you, Ben and I, I'm fine with that. I try to be honest to help you in your design efforts as well for others whether it's something they want to try. I am doing an 'off-label' application of the subliminal, but I often have done this with success with medications and herbs to great success. I'm a hacker-- in fact you could call me a relationship hacker. It was this process of hacking my own marriage that turned around a marriage that was not that interesting and mostly sexually frustrating to a vital, fun, highly sexual marriage that my wife and I enjoy today.
Let me know and I'll either switch to email or even put my journal in a google doc that I can share with you and Ben. Either way works for me. Let me know.
I am a little concerned with emboldening others to be as experimental as I am. So, I'll go with your wisdom on that.