01-20-2020, 11:08 AM
Hi All, (warning: I am not following the strict instructions given by Shannon at this stage, so do not follow my example. I'm including my posts to explore the breadth of what the effects of the sub may be under a variety of circumstances. Read my first post in this thread to understand my situation and goals.)
If you're interested in my experiment with DMSI 3.3.2 here's the latest:
Day 2:
She started the morning by giving me my first morning bj ever*. Was a busy Saturday, but was easily able to listen to 4 or 5 loops (lost count and listened to an extra one to be sure). Using the silent mp3 version mostly. I was energized but felt a little distracted. The distraction was that I spent a lot of time thinking about the sub and using it which lead to more readings of the forums and instructions, etc. I am running it in the background of my wife's computer as well and I keep checking in with her to make sure she's feeling ok, no headache, stomach or other symptoms. She just feels a little more up than usual (as do I) in spite of the general fatigue we have). Good day, no friction, more smiles and pats on the butt and playful banter than usual.
Day3:
Had trouble listening today, but managed to get 4 loops in though not back-to-back. Some of them (against the rules, I know) were while my wife and I were driving in the car together (covered a lot of miles in traffic yesterday). That was the only way I would get the requisite number of loops in.
We had a busy day, spent a lot of time together and around a lot of people. There seemed to be an increased warmth between us she would be more responsive and attentive to my touch or when I spoke to her. I felt less 'taken for granted'. It is worthy of note that while I was around many women, I got no particular attention from them, though I was more aware of them than usual, and I think I observed more smiles and eye contact. After being out and about for 12 hours, we stopped to buy gas. While at the gas station I went around to the passenger side to chat with her. I often will move her skirt up a little to make her show some leg. She actually parted her legs a bit more and pulled the skirt high enough to display her panties... this is more overt than she has ever been before in this type of daily situation. So good sign in my view. There was also a look in her eye and an electrical feeling between us even though we were both exhausted.
We returned home exhausted and she got into a sexy loose v neck baggy sweater like thing. While preparing a supper/snack she displayed herself spontaneously in a flirty fun way--which I of course encouraged. Free of any chemical stimulation (something I had relied on for some time) I got aroused and I warned her she was 'putting herself in danger'-- she bent over and said come-and-get-it. First time I'd been up for spontaneous sex in many months and a first time for her to initiate like that in years. So, whether my intent is affecting the way our subconsciousnesses are processing the sub or if this is just the effects in the early stages, I still like it very much.
Day 4:
She gave me another morning bj*. We're talking before 6am here. I'm very thankful. Something I'd been wanting for decades, now two times in 3 days. I went to the gym. NO looks at all. Well, one gal did seem to 'feel me coming' and looked out of the corner of her eye. That was it. The day isn't over yet, but she has already told me she wants some sex soon. Increased number of butt pats, bigger smiles, more eye contact. She even dressed kinda cute to go to the office today. Often she'll pick clothes I don't care about when she goes to the office. Maybe she is subtly working at being more attractive in public in general--could be effects from the sub. I'm very happy with this. I don't mind her getting a little more attention. This happened once before when she lost 35 lbs and got VERY fit, well-defined shoulders & arms, etc.-- her mood and self-image was great and was a lot of fun to be around. When guys would flirt with her, she wouldn't believe it was flirtation, or she'd blow them off without even realizing it. She is interesting on this point. She appears to be flirty, but it's just her bubbly personality. She is shocked and sometimes even dismayed when men pay attention to her in that way. I've been encouraging her over the years to accept and enjoy the attention.
So the experiment is going well for me so far. I will be getting a massage today from my usual place, it will be interesting if they respond differently to me than usual. I do have a baseline experience, so it has potential to be interesting.
Later this week I'll go and get a hair cut too, so it will be interesting to see if there are any differences. I have a baseline there as well.
* (note: I had played a pro oral subliminal from another vendor over the last few weeks, but had not seen any change so stopped using it. Also, she has known for decades this is a fantasy of mine. It was always too uncomfortable, or she doesn't feel inspired in the morning, etc. she's not squeamish about oral, in general, but it's always been a quick part of foreplay.)
If you're interested in my experiment with DMSI 3.3.2 here's the latest:
Day 2:
She started the morning by giving me my first morning bj ever*. Was a busy Saturday, but was easily able to listen to 4 or 5 loops (lost count and listened to an extra one to be sure). Using the silent mp3 version mostly. I was energized but felt a little distracted. The distraction was that I spent a lot of time thinking about the sub and using it which lead to more readings of the forums and instructions, etc. I am running it in the background of my wife's computer as well and I keep checking in with her to make sure she's feeling ok, no headache, stomach or other symptoms. She just feels a little more up than usual (as do I) in spite of the general fatigue we have). Good day, no friction, more smiles and pats on the butt and playful banter than usual.
Day3:
Had trouble listening today, but managed to get 4 loops in though not back-to-back. Some of them (against the rules, I know) were while my wife and I were driving in the car together (covered a lot of miles in traffic yesterday). That was the only way I would get the requisite number of loops in.
We had a busy day, spent a lot of time together and around a lot of people. There seemed to be an increased warmth between us she would be more responsive and attentive to my touch or when I spoke to her. I felt less 'taken for granted'. It is worthy of note that while I was around many women, I got no particular attention from them, though I was more aware of them than usual, and I think I observed more smiles and eye contact. After being out and about for 12 hours, we stopped to buy gas. While at the gas station I went around to the passenger side to chat with her. I often will move her skirt up a little to make her show some leg. She actually parted her legs a bit more and pulled the skirt high enough to display her panties... this is more overt than she has ever been before in this type of daily situation. So good sign in my view. There was also a look in her eye and an electrical feeling between us even though we were both exhausted.
We returned home exhausted and she got into a sexy loose v neck baggy sweater like thing. While preparing a supper/snack she displayed herself spontaneously in a flirty fun way--which I of course encouraged. Free of any chemical stimulation (something I had relied on for some time) I got aroused and I warned her she was 'putting herself in danger'-- she bent over and said come-and-get-it. First time I'd been up for spontaneous sex in many months and a first time for her to initiate like that in years. So, whether my intent is affecting the way our subconsciousnesses are processing the sub or if this is just the effects in the early stages, I still like it very much.
Day 4:
She gave me another morning bj*. We're talking before 6am here. I'm very thankful. Something I'd been wanting for decades, now two times in 3 days. I went to the gym. NO looks at all. Well, one gal did seem to 'feel me coming' and looked out of the corner of her eye. That was it. The day isn't over yet, but she has already told me she wants some sex soon. Increased number of butt pats, bigger smiles, more eye contact. She even dressed kinda cute to go to the office today. Often she'll pick clothes I don't care about when she goes to the office. Maybe she is subtly working at being more attractive in public in general--could be effects from the sub. I'm very happy with this. I don't mind her getting a little more attention. This happened once before when she lost 35 lbs and got VERY fit, well-defined shoulders & arms, etc.-- her mood and self-image was great and was a lot of fun to be around. When guys would flirt with her, she wouldn't believe it was flirtation, or she'd blow them off without even realizing it. She is interesting on this point. She appears to be flirty, but it's just her bubbly personality. She is shocked and sometimes even dismayed when men pay attention to her in that way. I've been encouraging her over the years to accept and enjoy the attention.
So the experiment is going well for me so far. I will be getting a massage today from my usual place, it will be interesting if they respond differently to me than usual. I do have a baseline experience, so it has potential to be interesting.
Later this week I'll go and get a hair cut too, so it will be interesting to see if there are any differences. I have a baseline there as well.
* (note: I had played a pro oral subliminal from another vendor over the last few weeks, but had not seen any change so stopped using it. Also, she has known for decades this is a fantasy of mine. It was always too uncomfortable, or she doesn't feel inspired in the morning, etc. she's not squeamish about oral, in general, but it's always been a quick part of foreplay.)
