01-20-2020, 10:15 AM
(01-18-2020, 02:03 PM)Shannon Wrote: I warn people who are involved not to use DMSI in it's current form, and especially not to expose their significant others, because of not just what it is designed to do, but how it is designed to do that. The only way for this program to be truly safe for couples to use is if you resist it, or you don't use it. If you execute this program completely, both of you will end up having not just seriously interested others - multiple others each - show up, but they will be interested in ways that are not safe for committed relationships. Unless maybe you are a hell of a swinger.
So... by the time you see "danger signs", it may in some ways already be too late. That is why I warn against that.
I also warn against it because people get used to seeing version after version come out and it does not accomplish XYZ goal. They assume it never will, or never can, or that enough exposure will not change that.
If you're going to run it, I strongly recommend you run it, without exposing her.
Hey Shannon,
Thanks for the response!
I noticed all your warnings and studied the info you put in the description as far as the goals and so on. The goals did not seem completely out of line with just in general becoming more sexually attractive (thus the name DMSI). The way I see it, that new attractiveness would naturally present more opportunities for someone with a wandering eye. I also read extensively the forums of people with experience primarily with 3.3.2 (and also some of the earlier versions) and I noted that guys were not finding the 'sniping' and the 'autopilot' (which I assume intends to turn you into a pickup machine) were not working the way the goals lay out. The effects even after multiple listening cycles was showing up more mild than the promise of your descriptions I actually liked the sound of the effects that were experienced by those reporting (at least those that I could find). It was the forums (which I examined after Ben's suggestion) that made it sound like it would be a good sexual confidence booster (FRM), as well as to increase positive attention from females that I encounter, being more noticeable in a positive manner, etc. Plus, while my wife likes me a lot, I often think it would be handy for her to initiate sexual contact (which she almost never does) so if I increase my attraction in general, it would like work specifically on her.
The reason I thought 'exposing' her to it would be valuable was also based on the report(s) of women in the forums, that their confidence was increased and got them a little more attention from men. Both of these effects would benefit my wife. Since neither of us have a wandering eye nor have 'swinging' fantasies I doubt we would end up swingers unless there is something in the scripting I should know about that suggests ignoring morality, or changing your personal values. The latter does not sound like you (from what I've read), so I am wondering what it is you are so concerned about if I l allow her to listen to the subs.
For now, I'm continuing my experiment, I've been fairly warned by you-- the one thing missing about the warning is something concrete I should be worried about, e.g. "the sub is intended to change your/your wife's mind about being faithful to you" or "the sub encourages you/her to have sex with everyone you come in contact with and you won't feel any hesitation or regret" I'm open to being convinced by you (or by results I see in the forum)
Also, regarding my experiment I do have some interesting results to post. If you'd like me to not post them or post them privately to you, let me know.
Thanks for the interesting products!
