01-24-2019, 07:08 PM
When you feel like this, the first priority is to take care of yourself. Seek someone, or someones, who can provide you with help. Self destruction is not the answer that will solve the issue. Trust me. I have been in your shoes with this. More than once. I still live in part because I realized that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, and because of that, I sought help to weather the storm.
Find someone to spend time with, talk to, help keep you safe through this.
And as for going bald at 14, guess what? That sucks, but it's what you have. Stop framing baldness as a detraction. Make it a feature. Baldness and confidence together are one of the biggest displays of sexiness you can make. Look at Patrick Stewart. There are actually lots of famous guys who went bald and only got sexier by shaving their heads. Bruce Willis, and others as well.
And I speak from experience with this as well. I didn't start going bald at 14, but at 21 I got Testicular cancer, and the chemo drugs started my balding. They destroyed my lungs, too. Prevented me from joining the military, or being a police officer, or a firefighter, or doing anything I was planning to do.
I'm bald. And in the beginning, I was afraid to be seen bald. But you know what? People got used to it when I started shaving my head. Now that they're used to it, they like it. And my confidence and baldness actually makes me more attractive. I have had teenage girls come on to me since I went bald. Never had that when I had hair!
Being bald isn't less attractive. Trying to comb it over, trying to hide it, trying to pretend it's not happening... those aren't the way to maximize your attractiveness. If you haven't yet, shave it all off. Then own it. It's sexy. And you are on the way to becoming irresistibly sexually attractive.
By the way, getting upset over the cards you've been dealt, not going to help. Find ways to make them useful. Strengths. Positives. There's always a way. You can do this.
Stay with us, William. There's a lot of good to experience in life yet.
Find someone to spend time with, talk to, help keep you safe through this.
And as for going bald at 14, guess what? That sucks, but it's what you have. Stop framing baldness as a detraction. Make it a feature. Baldness and confidence together are one of the biggest displays of sexiness you can make. Look at Patrick Stewart. There are actually lots of famous guys who went bald and only got sexier by shaving their heads. Bruce Willis, and others as well.
And I speak from experience with this as well. I didn't start going bald at 14, but at 21 I got Testicular cancer, and the chemo drugs started my balding. They destroyed my lungs, too. Prevented me from joining the military, or being a police officer, or a firefighter, or doing anything I was planning to do.
I'm bald. And in the beginning, I was afraid to be seen bald. But you know what? People got used to it when I started shaving my head. Now that they're used to it, they like it. And my confidence and baldness actually makes me more attractive. I have had teenage girls come on to me since I went bald. Never had that when I had hair!
Being bald isn't less attractive. Trying to comb it over, trying to hide it, trying to pretend it's not happening... those aren't the way to maximize your attractiveness. If you haven't yet, shave it all off. Then own it. It's sexy. And you are on the way to becoming irresistibly sexually attractive.
By the way, getting upset over the cards you've been dealt, not going to help. Find ways to make them useful. Strengths. Positives. There's always a way. You can do this.
Stay with us, William. There's a lot of good to experience in life yet.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
