DMSI 3.2b/a - dissonance

[K-Train]

Lol yep. I'm a scorpio too btw. Cheers

Same here. Scorp life.

[dissonance]

Scorpios + DMSI = TROUBLE!!!!!!!

[dissonance]

Something interesting that's been happening a lot lately is every time I encounter an irrational or negative self-limiting thought or belief or fear, i consciously "realize" and "discover" why that fear or thought or belief is irrational and/or not a big deal or whatever. That's the best I can explain it. Very interesting.

On a side note, 18-yr old minx responded to my last text a day late, saying just "hey". I said "hey whatsup" back 2 minutes later (probably givin her a sign of possible eagerness from me), and then she didn't respond yet still, and its been 22 hours at this point. I stayed silent because I was pretty sure she was just testing me to see where my heads at. When she responds this time I'm gonna wait a full 30 hours to respond to play it cool. Even if she knows I'm trying to play it cool because I played it semi-uncool by responding 2 minutes later, I feel like it's the good thing to do (responding to her next text after a full 30 hrs).

Or maybe i should do it late, but not later than hers, so it minimizes the possibility of her thinking I'm responding late for the sole purpose of playing it cool to makeup for my eagerness before?

What you guys think?

[Shannon]

I think you vastly overthink shit like that.

[dissonance]

I think you vastly overthink shit like that.

LOL i know i do. I always do. It's a flaw, but idk, I just have an OCD where i think about every little detail to maximize chances of success (not just in dating or girls)

[Shannon]

I think you vastly overthink shit like that.

LOL i know i do. I always do. It's a flaw, but idk, I just have an OCD where i think about every little detail to maximize chances of success (not just in dating or girls)

Overthinking it is just as bad as doing nothing. I can tell you that from personal experience, it comes from a place of insecurity and that is not what you want to be operating based on.

[dissonance]

True. Here, quick question for you:

If a girl you were talking to had a really hot sext session with you, then went silent, and you sent the last message, and the next day she texts you saying "hey" then you reply 2 minutes later "hey whatsup", and she doesn't say anything even when its 30 hours later (my situation right now), what would you do? Would you continue waiting for her to do the next message? or send her one at some point? or does that depend on different factors that i didn't mention?

[Smuggler]

Say nothing, write her off and don't expect a reply. Although very likely she will reply when she thinks you've forgotten about her, probably just to do the same thing again.

[dissonance]

Matched with another minx yesterday, 19 years old, named K. I'm starting to realize I'm attracted to younger girls (I'm 27). I started with some very similar opening messages to A (18-yr-old minx), and at one point, she said "Fuck that seriously made me wet. Getting in the bathtub now".

I now have two potential fucking sexy teenage minxes to choose from (or choose both, we'll see). I'm getting a tip of the iceberg taste of what abundance feels like, and it feels good. Damn good. Still have just a bit of ways to go before getting to the end goal though. We're close, people. We're close.

[Benjamin]

Very cool

[dissonance]

It seems I'm having some resistance build up past few days. Mental state is deteriorated. Getting very tired 2-3 hours before my actual bed time. Confidence and stuff is lower. Mood lower. 19 yr old minx unmatched with me for some reason. I hate the downs of the ups-n-downs. Hopefully ill get back up soon and stay there longer.

[dissonance]

"Stop trying. Stop worrying about pussy. Stop self sabotaging by trying too hard. Stop focusing on sex. Stop worrying about women. Stop trying to fulfill your needs and desires with something outside yourself, and start fulfilling them yourself. "

"To get women, you can't be desperate, and to not be desperate, you have to be self fulfilling instead of seeking fulfillment from women and otherwise outside yourself."

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I think I still need some A version to ingrain that mindset, because my mood/confidence/self-esteem is hugely up and down. Every time i feel like im moving forward it goes up, then when i move backwards, i feel shitty. Unless there's a technology that tricks ur subconscious into believing a future version of you where you already have an abundance or success with women is already in the current, lol

[Shannon]

"Stop trying. Stop worrying about pussy. Stop self sabotaging by trying too hard. Stop focusing on sex. Stop worrying about women. Stop trying to fulfill your needs and desires with something outside yourself, and start fulfilling them yourself. "

"To get women, you can't be desperate, and to not be desperate, you have to be self fulfilling instead of seeking fulfillment from women and otherwise outside yourself."

--

I think I still need some A version to ingrain that mindset, because my mood/confidence/self-esteem is hugely up and down. Every time i feel like im moving forward it goes up, then when i move backwards, i feel shitty. Unless there's a technology that tricks ur subconscious into believing a future version of you where you already have an abundance or success with women is already in the current, lol

Since the past, present and future are all the same thing, separated only by the limits of your perceptual ability for processing, and all possible "futures" exist, all you have to do is decide which one you want to experience. Belief is not necessary; focus is. Fear is currently guiding your focus in undesired directions. Choose to focus into success and abundance.

[Rocket13]

Lol Speaking of tinder, I just got unmatched because the chick read my bio... My bio says feminists crawl in a hole and die.