DMSI 3.2 Magnus

[Magnus]

Thanks Ryan.

A lot of what was coming up then was resistance and fear. Those have passed now.

Would you be able to explain having the correct energy? because I'm struggling to comprehend exactly what the right energy and in some ones a little put off by it because of the old PUA thing of you must have high energy and be the party guy. I am all against PUA type stuff now.

I wonder if the main cause for a lot of men not achieving exactly what it is they want so quickly, is just the fact there isn't much example out there of what these programs are pushing you to become. Perhaps, I could write a good manual/guide with some experience of what that is like. I realized, last year that made a huge difference on my mindset when I found another guy who wrote something similar.

I would find this hugely beneficial (i'm sure a lot of others would as well) as there's so much rubbish out there at the moment trying to find good examples on what actually its really like is next to impossible.

While stage 2 encountered horrible resistance, stage 3 has been good and has really helped me in a lot of ways. I'm so much more comfortable in all social environments now. I hardly talk but I feel mostly completely at ease and relaxed in social situations. I also realized the other day that I have become completely comfortable in my new flat during stage 3 which is cool. I've also had many other instances of feeling at ease in new social situations.

Fear is another big one that has become so much clearer to me. I've realized how all my anxiety was based around fear, everything that came up from November last year was all based on fear. Some of that has cleared. I had my ex contact me the other day which would usually send me into a tailspin of anxiety due to fear of abandonment rearing its ugly head. This anxiety was next to non existent. Getting past this anxiety is the main reason I started using Shannons subs in the first place and it feels like such an accomplishment knowing that fear is next to gone. I was also quite easily able to just delete the message and not worry about it with no draw to reply back through being able to now see how manipulative she was. This again is huge for me and another testament to Shannons subs. Depending on how things go with WM OFSG may well be my next port of call as i'm loving the feeling of freedom that comes from letting go of fears.

I've been finding more and more random people are talking to me since starting stage 3 as well. Last night I had a random girl come over from the other side of a room to start talking to me. I found I had no expectations of anything and was just chatting to her like I would with someone I've known for years. I've let go of a lot of worrying about whether people like me or not or feeling embarrassed about things. Like today I just found myself singing loudly in my car and just enjoying it without worrying about what others though of me.