07-16-2016, 11:32 AM
(07-16-2016, 11:18 AM)OberynMartell Wrote: Yeah, let me elaborate on that.
So this girl I know for a year now and there was always a little bit of attraction. We kissed a few times, but she didn't want to go further. She even said she didn't want to kiss me anymore, because she values our friendship too much. Just so you know, I was madly in love with her, that comment was like a kick in the groin.
In comes DMSI. She started looking at me very differently after a couple of weeks. When going out, a friend told me she was watching every move that I made. Last weekend we were out again, I started dancing with this cute looking girl and all of a sudden she was there as well. She took my hand to take some shots together and we were making out. Now comes the part where I truly believe the sub started to work for me.
I was never good at escalating things. Never knew what to say next. I don't even know what it was that I said, but the next thing I know she grabbed me and pushed me to the exit and getting a taxi home. I really thought I had no chances with her anymore, and now she is the one texting me all the time and asking when we'll meet again
Amazing post. This is exactly what I feel with a few girls. No chance now, especially the 3 I got rejected by recently that I wrote about in my journal. Getting in person with them in particular to test DMSI, isn't really possible now without a change in interest from them. Chicken and the egg. So unless they "see" something different through social media perhaps, I don't see much difference occurring. Apparently, people have said often girls from the past that they liked but thought they had no chance with have suddenly contacted them out of nowhere on this. I find that hard to believe, and those were probably coincidences in my view.
Anyway, fantastic posts, thank you so much. Something to strive for, for all of us on this program.
