03-19-2011, 07:14 PM
sometimes feel anger towards others who really disrespect you is normal. It's just hard to control those thoughts and feelings. You are making good progress though! I don't know how long youve known those old friends but letting go of them is the best thing you can do.
I moved to this new area about 9 months ago and i still havent made friends. Except from work. It is hard but it can be done. It just requires you going out and doing things. Try becoming friends with some people at your work place. You never know.. you might be invited to a party or get together. it's ok to feel lonely if you do feel lonely go out to a pub or go play some pool at a bar. don't worry too much about socializing.. just relax and simply be you. Just do your best not to think about "I want to find a woman" or "I want to make some new friends" and indulge in it. Just make sure you are open to the possibility.
I moved to this new area about 9 months ago and i still havent made friends. Except from work. It is hard but it can be done. It just requires you going out and doing things. Try becoming friends with some people at your work place. You never know.. you might be invited to a party or get together. it's ok to feel lonely if you do feel lonely go out to a pub or go play some pool at a bar. don't worry too much about socializing.. just relax and simply be you. Just do your best not to think about "I want to find a woman" or "I want to make some new friends" and indulge in it. Just make sure you are open to the possibility.
