11-28-2012, 06:58 AM
(11-27-2012, 06:52 PM)Shannon Wrote: Thank you. But I don't understand something.
What good is guilt doing you here? Why drink in secret? Why drink? If you are going to use alcohol to relax, why not just have a drink without doing it secretly? Why induce shame and guilt?
I'm not worried about it having anything to do with subliminals. I'm wanting you to think about these things, and think of them without giving a rote unthinking response. Really think about them.
If you're afraid, and you use alcohol to relax, why not own that truth? A lot of people use it to relax. It's not the end of the world.
Perhaps Overcoming Guilt, Shame and Fear would be a better choice?
Hi Shannon,
Possibly Overcoming Guilt shame ,fear would have been the best choice at this stage but i have started the OF now for a few days so i think i will stick with it.
I take onboard what you are saying and it makes sense.
Why feel guilty?...when you put it like that it makes a lot of sense lol!
Perhaps i will make the OG,S,F my next sub.
And thanks again Shannon.