11-03-2019, 09:36 AM
Hi Shannon,
To chime in here I believe the importance of comfort was being previously discussed and I absolutely agree that that needs to be ramped up to the maximum level- I’ve noticed that people that don’t know me find me intimidating and aggressive, especially since in recent years when I’ve begun to age more and have a mature facial appearance and hairline (I don’t really have that baby face anymore) along with sporting a full beard and growing larger physically (mix between fat and muscle)- I find that in recent years people don’t really approach me anymore (especially women that I find attractive) and I used to always get approached/opened by all kinds of women- the funny thing is that I’ve always kind of found women that I find attractive to be intimidating to me and not really knowing/being able to open them, so I really depended on them approaching and opening me- once the opening/approach by them had been completed from there I usually had a good chance of closing and at the very least making out with them worst case (depending on logistics, what state I was in, etc)
I also used to work in nightclubs- so I regularly interacted with and met lots of women regularly. The fact that I no longer hold that position along with my change in appearance I believe has resulted in severely degrading the quantity and quality of women that I’ve been with most recently- I mainly depend on apps now to meet new women which I find very annoying.
I believe that the comfort needs to be maximized on both ends- our comfort with regards to interacting with the most attractive women anywhere and their comfort with us- along with maximizing the amount that we get opened/approached (or at the very least super obviously invited to approach them) by very attractive women, I think just these two things would steer things in the right direction and thus allow the majority of us to maximize the dates we go on and the closes that we make - because to be honest as much as we’d all like it I know super models aren’t going to start approaching us in broad daylight and leading us back to their place to have sex (unless that’s what you’re saying the final goal is ?).
To chime in here I believe the importance of comfort was being previously discussed and I absolutely agree that that needs to be ramped up to the maximum level- I’ve noticed that people that don’t know me find me intimidating and aggressive, especially since in recent years when I’ve begun to age more and have a mature facial appearance and hairline (I don’t really have that baby face anymore) along with sporting a full beard and growing larger physically (mix between fat and muscle)- I find that in recent years people don’t really approach me anymore (especially women that I find attractive) and I used to always get approached/opened by all kinds of women- the funny thing is that I’ve always kind of found women that I find attractive to be intimidating to me and not really knowing/being able to open them, so I really depended on them approaching and opening me- once the opening/approach by them had been completed from there I usually had a good chance of closing and at the very least making out with them worst case (depending on logistics, what state I was in, etc)
I also used to work in nightclubs- so I regularly interacted with and met lots of women regularly. The fact that I no longer hold that position along with my change in appearance I believe has resulted in severely degrading the quantity and quality of women that I’ve been with most recently- I mainly depend on apps now to meet new women which I find very annoying.
I believe that the comfort needs to be maximized on both ends- our comfort with regards to interacting with the most attractive women anywhere and their comfort with us- along with maximizing the amount that we get opened/approached (or at the very least super obviously invited to approach them) by very attractive women, I think just these two things would steer things in the right direction and thus allow the majority of us to maximize the dates we go on and the closes that we make - because to be honest as much as we’d all like it I know super models aren’t going to start approaching us in broad daylight and leading us back to their place to have sex (unless that’s what you’re saying the final goal is ?).
