10-29-2019, 05:43 AM
(10-28-2019, 09:41 PM)CatMan Wrote: Hey guys!
Had a bit of an issue in the family, had to handle it. Otherwise I would've replied sooner.
I'm grateful for the interest and responses.
To add some more context, these are girls I've met within the past few months, recent, and see once a week for a couple hours at most. Have the numbers of most of them. Sometimes I may go 2-3 weeks without seeing or talking to them, different schedules and what not. I mean, I'm not a ladies man by any means, however even *I* know how bad it is to be the super available "friend zone" guy. NOW I do anyway, lmao, last couple years fixed that behaviour by finally being able to see it's bad despite hearing from girls how it's good to be "friends first". Observing their dating choices paints quite a different narrative, so observing that largely fixed that problem stemming from extremely inaccurate information from them at last.
It could be just a crappy night with them, or just them being forced to reframe me by the program in their eyes. I am skeptical about the second choice, I'd need to see clear evidence they're attracted first, I have real doubts. I didn't want to go down that route of excuses in my mind in a sense, I was worried I'd give myself false hope or just rationalise away lack of interest. Other times things are better, but that was my point. How it still seems completely random, there's no sense of "alpha" or "hot guy" I can tell at all being portrayed. That's all I was trying to get at.
I am very fatigued of "chasing" or "pursuing" women since puberty, one way or another. I suppose if I was very successful at it all along, I'd enjoy it, or would have gotten it "out of my system" by now. All I know is, it tends to feel like "here we go again, sigh" with anything to do with them. Lol, my brother and I joke I have PTSD with females...which I have no problem believing.
I'll continue listening for now. I'll see if anything changes. Nothing else really floats my boat comparatively anyway (besides a buffed-up UMS), especially since the skeleton script for 6G is being built through this program. So even if I've really checked out of screwing around and trying to get women for a long time now, it's still in my best interest to use it. I do often wonder if dedicating my use of subliminals to "gettin' chicks, brah!" is merely a new form of pedestalisation of women, and further causing damage to me, like saying I'm not good enough without it. Even though it hasn't really done anything to change my fortunes with women. We'll see what happens, I guess. Hopefully it won't be like a year or more again for the new version.
Anyroad, have a good day people. Thanks again for the responses.
Women intuitively categorise men into either "fucks" or "friends" based of their first meeting.
Men will categorise any women they meet into the same column ranging from 10 (I'd do her right now) down to 0 (never in the entire universe).
It sounds like you've put those women at the top of you ladder and they've relegated you to friend.
If those women have already relegated you to "friend", you're better of moving on.
The real skill here isn't "getting those girls", its moving on fast enough to get the next ones.
