07-18-2011, 09:58 PM
Ok something i'm noticing here. It may or may not be true, but will give you something to think about.
Your saying stuff like "I don't want to sleep with somebody just to lose my virginity" and "I think in society guys are pressured a lot more to lose their virginity just for the sake of getting laid."
Which on the surface sounds perfectly reasonable.
But be sure you aren't saying this stuff because of some fear or insecurity, which I think may be the case.
When I was 18 and decided to get it handled, and I first got into David Deangelo. I made the goal to lose it and I did and it felt good. And it wasn't like the girl was some pogga, she wasn't too bad.
The interesting thing is when I would fantasize about girls wishing I could have sex with them or whatever, it would push them away, but interestingly i've noticed that when i've been visualizing it while in trance and like i'm actually having sex with them and the feeling of 'having it' it's actually drawing them in. Even a specific one I visualized tried to come and talk to me in the nightclub, but I didn't get to because I was dealing with something.
And it's reduced neediness alot.
-Ben
Your saying stuff like "I don't want to sleep with somebody just to lose my virginity" and "I think in society guys are pressured a lot more to lose their virginity just for the sake of getting laid."
Which on the surface sounds perfectly reasonable.
But be sure you aren't saying this stuff because of some fear or insecurity, which I think may be the case.
When I was 18 and decided to get it handled, and I first got into David Deangelo. I made the goal to lose it and I did and it felt good. And it wasn't like the girl was some pogga, she wasn't too bad.
The interesting thing is when I would fantasize about girls wishing I could have sex with them or whatever, it would push them away, but interestingly i've noticed that when i've been visualizing it while in trance and like i'm actually having sex with them and the feeling of 'having it' it's actually drawing them in. Even a specific one I visualized tried to come and talk to me in the nightclub, but I didn't get to because I was dealing with something.
And it's reduced neediness alot.
-Ben
