01-27-2011, 04:20 PM
Nice list, Dude!
The eye thing was basically an automatic subconscious aversion to potentially threatening someone with direct eye contact. I have seen it before. It's sort of a subconscious body language way of saying, "Not really, I'm not trying to threaten you, anyone who's alpha-er!" Now that you're more comfortable, you are noticing that's going away, and after a while you'll feel much more comfortable with what will develop into a "gaze of presence".
As for the sexiness/etc., that's always going to attract female attention, but what you do with it is always your choice. Eye seducing your wife certainly wouldn't be out of the question, though.
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The eye thing was basically an automatic subconscious aversion to potentially threatening someone with direct eye contact. I have seen it before. It's sort of a subconscious body language way of saying, "Not really, I'm not trying to threaten you, anyone who's alpha-er!" Now that you're more comfortable, you are noticing that's going away, and after a while you'll feel much more comfortable with what will develop into a "gaze of presence".
As for the sexiness/etc., that's always going to attract female attention, but what you do with it is always your choice. Eye seducing your wife certainly wouldn't be out of the question, though.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!