07-20-2010, 12:52 AM
A genuine alpha would understand that it takes two to tango, and just walk away. I know how you feel, wanting to punch his lights out. Been there... many times. I actually have quite a bit of experience with being cheated on. But you know what? "If you want to be with me, you'll act like it." So she didn't really want to be with you. Okay, that's her loss, and since she has just completely disqualified herself as being worth your time, you let her have him. Obviously, he was dumb enough to sex her while she was taken (if he knew). So what she's done is a favor for you: she showed you that she's not good enough for you to care about or spend your time, money or energy on, and she's done it with her actions, which speak louder than words.
Yes, it hurts. But as an alpha, you understand that you are too good for that sort of woman, and simply disconnect, withdraw whatever goodness she got from being your girlfriend, and walk away understanding that she (and probably he too) are not mature or intelligent enough to appreciate what you have to offer. Let them have each other. They got what they deserved: each other.
If she cheats as much as you're saying, she has either serious self esteem/self respect problems, or she may have a mental imbalance of some sort, or even both. There are good women out there who will appreciate you and be faithful. Just walk away. You are better than that.
Yes, it hurts. But as an alpha, you understand that you are too good for that sort of woman, and simply disconnect, withdraw whatever goodness she got from being your girlfriend, and walk away understanding that she (and probably he too) are not mature or intelligent enough to appreciate what you have to offer. Let them have each other. They got what they deserved: each other.
If she cheats as much as you're saying, she has either serious self esteem/self respect problems, or she may have a mental imbalance of some sort, or even both. There are good women out there who will appreciate you and be faithful. Just walk away. You are better than that.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!