06-14-2017, 01:07 PM
As someone who has had a few freakouts in his time, I can share my perspective.
You're not the only one confused. Men needing space can often times be them saying that they need to think or feel stability.
He might also not be the guy as mentioned. Not just as a shade (I'm not too familiar with this) but as preparation for YOU. Like how you're terrified of falling off of a horse and the only thing that really fixes that fear is falling off and getting back on. Then you see it's no big deal and you can focus more on the actual ride.
Who knows what's going on, but whatever you do don't obsess and don't stop finding other things to bring you Joy. Stay busy, keep finding new things in life to enjoy and don't send him nudies at the drop of a hat. Nothing wrong with skimpy pix, though. Keep the fires roaring and all that.
You're not the only one confused. Men needing space can often times be them saying that they need to think or feel stability.
He might also not be the guy as mentioned. Not just as a shade (I'm not too familiar with this) but as preparation for YOU. Like how you're terrified of falling off of a horse and the only thing that really fixes that fear is falling off and getting back on. Then you see it's no big deal and you can focus more on the actual ride.
Who knows what's going on, but whatever you do don't obsess and don't stop finding other things to bring you Joy. Stay busy, keep finding new things in life to enjoy and don't send him nudies at the drop of a hat. Nothing wrong with skimpy pix, though. Keep the fires roaring and all that.