Very good point.
Oh, no, I DID wear the pheromones and all but I mostly went there just to dance and that's part of the reason I didn't want to take things with that guy further as well as him being not enough of my type.
I met my last boyfriend at a meetup group based on a common interest and I really find it hard to get out there because I find my career exhausting but I think you may be right. As far as attracting guys for dates, online dating has been AMAZING for me but it's getting too sexual and I need both and I have been thinking along the same lines that I need to get out into the "real world" more and do groups. I DO have hobbies like ice skating, karaoke and bike riding but I think I need to actually get back into group things more, like meetup. I am fussy on who I like but I think and hope this subliminals will help me attract more good looking guys out and about anyway which wasn't happening enough.
This is my focus too, to extend what's been happening ONLINE to OFFLINE.
I also think that some guys are less shy online so if they want sex they don't beat around the bush in a way a guy in a group might, he might try to date me first. It's just that online I've found more guys that I find attractive who find me attractive but my intention is to have more of that happening in the "real world" and with guys that I can get instinctive, intuitive feels for - I'm quite good at that but it's WAY harder to do from just photos! - and who might actually want to go on dates. Because they at LEAST have the drive to go out to a group so they MIGHT be more likely to have the drive to go out on a date too. That's my theory anyway.
So, I know it means I need to become more extrovert, more patient and more energetic.
But those are all positive changes I'm happy to make, not just for my love life.
I am fine with the sex but it's just that I'm ALREADY attracting good looking guys who want sex, which is STILL come ON NOT to be sneezed at! and a few months ago, I didn't even HAVE that. I had this lull. But it's just that I love dating too and so I want that also. And EVENTUALLY I want a relationship with someone amazing. And I'm PROBABLY NOT gonna find him through a dating app or site but probably from a group activity but who knows I guess.
I want to add the offline thing TO the online thing.
And I'm not desperate or anything but dating's fun. I LOVE sex but I love romance too. But while I have a lot of guys wanting sex with me (and the vast vast majority of them do NOT get it, I hasten to add!)
I don't get as many date offers and I love the pleasure of
going out for a coffee or drink or dinner for example with a lovely good-looking guy who finds me attractive, flirting with each other, having a laugh and great conversation. It's eye candy, it's meeting new people and that wonderful dynamic and I guess even sexual tension but also the jokes, the mental stimulation too and seeing new places.
It doesn't even have to cost much money or could even be a walk in the park.
I had a second date that was partially a walk in the park and we had a GREAT time. Chatting, laughing, enjoying the company and all the things to look at and great exercise. It's nice to do that with friends, but with a good looking, sexy person, it's a bonus. And going to places you didn't even know existed. Even if it's just a new bar. I had a cocktail with a guy, we chatted about law of attraction and hypnosis and I saw this amazing cocktail made for me and enjoyed that.
Oh, no, I DID wear the pheromones and all but I mostly went there just to dance and that's part of the reason I didn't want to take things with that guy further as well as him being not enough of my type.
I met my last boyfriend at a meetup group based on a common interest and I really find it hard to get out there because I find my career exhausting but I think you may be right. As far as attracting guys for dates, online dating has been AMAZING for me but it's getting too sexual and I need both and I have been thinking along the same lines that I need to get out into the "real world" more and do groups. I DO have hobbies like ice skating, karaoke and bike riding but I think I need to actually get back into group things more, like meetup. I am fussy on who I like but I think and hope this subliminals will help me attract more good looking guys out and about anyway which wasn't happening enough.
This is my focus too, to extend what's been happening ONLINE to OFFLINE.
I also think that some guys are less shy online so if they want sex they don't beat around the bush in a way a guy in a group might, he might try to date me first. It's just that online I've found more guys that I find attractive who find me attractive but my intention is to have more of that happening in the "real world" and with guys that I can get instinctive, intuitive feels for - I'm quite good at that but it's WAY harder to do from just photos! - and who might actually want to go on dates. Because they at LEAST have the drive to go out to a group so they MIGHT be more likely to have the drive to go out on a date too. That's my theory anyway.
So, I know it means I need to become more extrovert, more patient and more energetic.
But those are all positive changes I'm happy to make, not just for my love life.
I am fine with the sex but it's just that I'm ALREADY attracting good looking guys who want sex, which is STILL come ON NOT to be sneezed at! and a few months ago, I didn't even HAVE that. I had this lull. But it's just that I love dating too and so I want that also. And EVENTUALLY I want a relationship with someone amazing. And I'm PROBABLY NOT gonna find him through a dating app or site but probably from a group activity but who knows I guess.
I want to add the offline thing TO the online thing.
And I'm not desperate or anything but dating's fun. I LOVE sex but I love romance too. But while I have a lot of guys wanting sex with me (and the vast vast majority of them do NOT get it, I hasten to add!)
I don't get as many date offers and I love the pleasure of
going out for a coffee or drink or dinner for example with a lovely good-looking guy who finds me attractive, flirting with each other, having a laugh and great conversation. It's eye candy, it's meeting new people and that wonderful dynamic and I guess even sexual tension but also the jokes, the mental stimulation too and seeing new places.
It doesn't even have to cost much money or could even be a walk in the park.
I had a second date that was partially a walk in the park and we had a GREAT time. Chatting, laughing, enjoying the company and all the things to look at and great exercise. It's nice to do that with friends, but with a good looking, sexy person, it's a bonus. And going to places you didn't even know existed. Even if it's just a new bar. I had a cocktail with a guy, we chatted about law of attraction and hypnosis and I saw this amazing cocktail made for me and enjoyed that.
