03-23-2011, 06:32 PM
well.. were you two sitting down? were ya'll making good eye contact? If I was in the position after getting her laughing really hard she would have had her line then I would have let the moment die down while giving her good eye contact. and I would have said "kiss me" in a strong low tone.
I mean.. if you dig this girl.. take the next step. If you are scared to make the first move you can make the first move by saying kiss me... it's like you give the girl permission to do so but you can't expect anything from it. Only if you two were alone or whatever. if not.. you could have taken a few seconds to think about what you really wanted to do.. take her hand and tell her "I want to show you something" then get somewhere out of view from everyone else in a semi private area and just start making out.
I look at it as this... When you are not sure of what to say next then there is nothing left to say. I've always liked the idea of verbal flirting but never indulged in it too much.. because when I did I was always screwing up my chances because I was always thinking about the next line.. what's the next line going to be.. oh sh*t she said that?? or before you know it she's already slightly ticked off and walking away. I would never actually take any initiative myself to move whatever was happening forward to the next level back then. Of course.. I wasn't in your situation so I can't tell you exactly what you want to do.. but what I mentioned above is a good start.
I mean.. if you dig this girl.. take the next step. If you are scared to make the first move you can make the first move by saying kiss me... it's like you give the girl permission to do so but you can't expect anything from it. Only if you two were alone or whatever. if not.. you could have taken a few seconds to think about what you really wanted to do.. take her hand and tell her "I want to show you something" then get somewhere out of view from everyone else in a semi private area and just start making out.
I look at it as this... When you are not sure of what to say next then there is nothing left to say. I've always liked the idea of verbal flirting but never indulged in it too much.. because when I did I was always screwing up my chances because I was always thinking about the next line.. what's the next line going to be.. oh sh*t she said that?? or before you know it she's already slightly ticked off and walking away. I would never actually take any initiative myself to move whatever was happening forward to the next level back then. Of course.. I wasn't in your situation so I can't tell you exactly what you want to do.. but what I mentioned above is a good start.
