Advices for younger men

[tolgaocal80]

Hi, I have been reading this forum for a long time now. I learned so many informations about general relationships and I know we can learn too much thing from older guys as early 20's. 
I am in my early twenties and as I get older I can see my faults I did when I was younger, so now if I can get back in time, I would do better in life. here is some topics may help any teenager:

1. Money
2. General Relationships with people
3. Sexual Relationships
3. Leadership Ability
4. Work life
5. Advices for Starting Our own business
6. Habits 
7. Hobbies
etc. 
Anybody who want to give some advices, I really appricated and will  think about it. And anybody who want to ask questions  about things (with regarding forum rules) welcomed.

@Benjamin is that okey this thread?, if not please delete.

[Benjamin]

Yeah that's fine.

[AbundanceCH]

Coach Greg Adams should be mandatory viewing not just for young men but ALL MEN.

Some of his videos for men in their 20's

Advice for men in their 20's
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32UoHWAQ9hg

Young Men Going Their Own Way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbOdo1o95SY

Don’t marry her
https://youtu.be/q12h65-c-lo

Do You Have Advice For Men In Their 20s?
https://youtu.be/Dm-BNUkJSXw

[CatMan]

EDIT: Hmm. In retrospect, I used a word/concept in here that seems to be a rule breaker here on the forum. I don't want to create an argument, I deeply hate those, or break a forum rule and risk a ban.

So disregard this.

[tolgaocal80]

Coach Greg Adams should be mandatory viewing not just for young men but ALL MEN.

Some of his videos for men in their 20's

Advice for men in their 20's
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32UoHWAQ9hg

Young Men Going Their Own Way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbOdo1o95SY

Don’t marry her
https://youtu.be/q12h65-c-lo

Do You Have Advice For Men In Their 20s?
https://youtu.be/Dm-BNUkJSXw

I didn't know these chanells thank you very much. Sometimes I listen Jordan Peterson, Alpha Male Strategies kind of things, I subscribed this channels, looks like very educational. thanks again

[tolgaocal80]

EDIT: Hmm. In retrospect, I used a word/concept in here that seems to be a rule breaker here on the forum. I don't want to create an argument, I deeply hate those, or break a forum rule and risk a ban.

So disregard this.

I didn't notice that in your writings, but CM yeah thanks for these sincere advices, I would want to qoute some of them and say somethings though, what you are saying; remind me a real description of transcending-ascending alpha male,
I guess it was Alpha Male 2.0 book, Many of what you said for marriage, girls are %100 acceptable for me I think the same way, I don't want to marriage but of course that doesn't mean I don't want to be in relationships, with this my primary thing is really money. I don't want a 401k or a retirement plan, I want cash money in bank. I had a plan, but this procastinating shit really on me. I want to work as hell, all day, and  I want to make my all concerns are about my this plan. but procastinating really makes me upset. My relationship with girls is not shining but I don't care,  I want to make money. As I know you run your own business, I fortunately read how you deal with your own procastination, I know I can make my ideas happen, but as long as I contuine to doing my own weakness, seems like this will be just a dream. thanks for your detailed post, btw where was the rule breaking word I couldn't see it, did you write in a word file? I collect some of posts and read when I have time

[tolgaocal80]

by CGA channel on youtube, this man is very good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPOZDBlzaSk

[reki]

Watch Coach Red Pill

[Zane]

Learn "Heart-Coherence" Technique.

Watch Videos of Gregg Braden.. On Youtube.

There is a 3 hours lecture.

That is how I started.

Unlearn what society and other institution has taught you.

You can do/get anything if you focus your mind and heart on it.
Solve your own problems first before jumping on to. Help others.. If you don't do that then you will only create more mess.

Learn to differentiate between fear and love/passion.

If you are doing something out of fear which you think is motivation.. Then it's not.. The right way and will only cause more trouble. Overcome your fear and you find the power of passion.. Which will free you.

Go with the flow...

[fab10]

Learn "Heart-Coherence" Technique.

Watch Videos of Gregg Braden.. On Youtube.

There is a 3 hours lecture.

That is how I started.

Unlearn what society and other institution has taught you.

You can do/get anything if you focus your mind and heart on it.
Solve your own problems first before jumping on to. Help others.. If you don't do that then you will only create more mess.

Learn to differentiate between fear and love/passion.

If you are doing something out of fear which you think is motivation.. Then it's not.. The right way and will only cause more trouble. Overcome your fear and you find the power of passion.. Which will free you.

Go with the flow...

Very helpful post Zane, Thank you. 

I can vouch for heart coherence, it’s easy to learn, easy and quick to do and it delivers (even without buying the somewhat overpriced machine.)

I never thought of looking for Gragg Braden’s videos, even if I know the author, that will be my next priority.

[tolgaocal80]

Learn "Heart-Coherence" Technique.

Watch Videos of Gregg Braden.. On Youtube.

There is a 3 hours lecture.

That is how I started.

Unlearn what society and other institution has taught you.

You can do/get anything if you focus your mind and heart on it.
Solve your own problems first before jumping on to. Help others.. If you don't do that then you will only create more mess.

Learn to differentiate between fear and love/passion.

If you are doing something out of fear which you think is motivation.. Then it's not.. The right way and will only cause more trouble. Overcome your fear and you find the power of passion.. Which will free you.

Go with the flow...

thanks Zane, I am relatively a young guy and most of my life passed with "motivation out of fear" and because of that, as I grow up I am finding myself stuck with the real life. I don't know what will I do after college or will I do reach my goals, grow up on my past family based traumas etc.

Watch Videos of Gregg Braden.. On Youtube.
There is a 3 hours lecture.

That is how I started.

I watching this guy on some youtube channels but didn't know his name, thrive 1 was a really mind opening film good to see 2. is coming. will watch this lecture.

Unlearn what society and other institution has taught you.

Social shit programming is realy messed up in my country, America is a better place for living undoublty. I definitly will look for living in an another country.

You can do/get anything if you focus your mind and heart on it.
Solve your own problems first before jumping on to. Help others.. If you don't do that then you will only create more mess.

I have started to free myself from trying to controll other people and  things. I realized that not much time ago. Thanks.

Learn to differentiate between fear and love/passion.

If you are doing something out of fear which you think is motivation.. Then it's not.. The right way and will only cause more trouble. Overcome your fear and you find the power of passion.. Which will free you.

exactly thats what I am looking for, I always feared from getting bad points in exams not because get a good job or thats the thing I want to, but I feared from my parents, feared from "if I don't get high points I will be a unemployed guy ". and now when I have to do create my life, my lifestyle, my money . everything is getting more scary and depressing.
thanks for that wisdom. I really enjoying reading people here.

[AbundanceCH]

Recently discovered Hamza and he is really good. Great advice, simple and common sense advice for men of all ages. He does focus a lot on young men.

Life advice for young men
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1w9OzBrpzU

How to improve yourself right now (and why)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6AfKseHK...1lbg%3D%3D

How to be less feminine (and more masculine)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hib3KCnmPWM

[AbundanceCH]

Dating Young Women VS Cougars - Men's Advice
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d3LSWe-6RXM