04-13-2012, 01:56 AM
I can think of three possible reasons for women to end up with your friends instead of you.
1. You're projecting such high value that they are attracted, but cannot feel good enough, and they then either turn to your friends, or your friends turn to them.
2. You are so aloof that you are not pulling the trigger because you don't care.
3. You are the prize, but you're afraid at some level to actually claim the "being the prize" and act on it?
Definitely though, get out there solo and start pulling the trigger.
1. You're projecting such high value that they are attracted, but cannot feel good enough, and they then either turn to your friends, or your friends turn to them.
2. You are so aloof that you are not pulling the trigger because you don't care.
3. You are the prize, but you're afraid at some level to actually claim the "being the prize" and act on it?
Definitely though, get out there solo and start pulling the trigger.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
