(11-12-2011, 01:59 AM)RainbowAbyss Wrote:(11-11-2011, 05:58 AM)Ryan Wrote: Rainbow, unfortunately there isn't some secret technique you can use to make her like you again if there isn't attraction anymore. Honestly, I lost women in the beginning of Sex Magnet too. I don't know if it's the new vibe they can sense or what. Actually I was very distant and indifferent in the beginning of SM so people thought I was a careless asshole at times.
But what I suspect...I used to do this to women too. I would just stop talking to them because all I was doing was having sex with them but I wasn't interested in anything else. Overtime, they began bothering me and esp. in the beginning of SM when my standards rose. I just cut them off and wouldn't talk to them ever again. Harsh, but I understand where she's coming from.
But I wonder if resistance is manifesting in your life?
That doesn't matter. Actually, my secret technique is this...You gotta remove her from your life completely, forget about her, delete the number, remove from Facebook. If she starts talking to you, be more carefree and indifferent and let her work her way back to you. In the next few months, you'll completely forget about her and any other woman that wants to do the same.
Ryan
Ryan, it might be some resistance manifesting in my physical circumstance as I'm feeling less and less internal resistance. I also think ur right on the money ur last bit, u propose a great place to be comin from and I'm already on the secret technique.., that said - gotta say ur prior mentioned suspicions seem a bit disconnected any reality..it sounded like u literally compared ur early developing sex magnet player self to a 29 year old extremely career focus woman x fk buddy of mine who WAS actually looking to settle down before I got my beastly paws on her..,implying that her standards rose and/or she got bored off me and then u said u understand where she was coming from lol
I can't stress this enough-I was super indifferent and carefree with this girl-thats one of the reasons we had so much fun-in fact she wanted seemed very much like she wanted to date and I made it clear that was a no go,also she was almost seven years older than me and looking to get more settled in...so now that I think about it with the smarter head..she prob just wanted to move on...in which case: good for her lol. Also last time we had sex I was not as into her and she said she felt it...seemed upsetting to her and could be that..in any case we need not dwell any more on it...as last night was of epic proportions..pursued for sex by a hot married woman..yes we made out after she lunged at me..and no, I refused to go home with her, a giant friendly competition between me and my bud over voloptuous sexy nerd girl involving dance tug of war,and a female, another different girl, proposed three way after her literal girlfriend felt left out..this set is so much fun, I'm hoping in later stages all nights like this end with fruition of the possibilities they present.. my poetic way of saying that some things fell through lol
Well for me, there are a lot of women that 'cannot handle me' so to speak. Don't let that get you down, you are not doing anything wrong. You said yourself that she wants a man to settle with. My ex was like that which was why she broke up with me towards the end of stage 1. I was in that same exact boat. And it made stage 1 all the more harder for me. But, in stage 2 I became completely indifferent and didn't care about having any woman in my life. During stage 1 she also began to say I was coming off like I didn't care. And I was feeling that but I didn't know others did as well. I wasn't as much into the sex either, like you said. And perhaps the program pushes those away that aren't right for you and brings the ones that are. She probably just couldn't see a future.
However, that brings me to another point. The first girl I ever had a sexual relationship with ended up completely ignoring me and never wanted to get together anymore. Later on I found out it was because she developed extreme feelings for me and I wouldn't give her what she wanted, she had to distance herself from me for a while.
Ryan
