04-18-2015, 10:31 AM
Or decide that she can't stop you from growing, use it as you would if she wasn't there and if she brings it up just say that it helps you challenge your insecurities, not a big deal, blah blah blah.
You are basically asking how you can hide from her that you are trying to become more of a man or if we could help you become up with a convincing lie. I'm not experienced with long relationships in any way, but I can't see this ending any better than if you just ran it like it wasn't a secret.
There isn't much else you can do besides what wahyu suggested, I doubt there's many expert ninjas here who could give you some great advice. Or if there are, we wouldn't know about them anyway.
You are basically asking how you can hide from her that you are trying to become more of a man or if we could help you become up with a convincing lie. I'm not experienced with long relationships in any way, but I can't see this ending any better than if you just ran it like it wasn't a secret.
There isn't much else you can do besides what wahyu suggested, I doubt there's many expert ninjas here who could give you some great advice. Or if there are, we wouldn't know about them anyway.
