(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: Some of you reading this may be thinking that none of this sounds very good. Low libido, low desire to socialize and have fun, staying at home everyday like a hermit/old man, relationship with gf becoming colder....
Indeed. This was exactly what I was thinking while reading this. To be an Alpha Male, being confident, leading yourself, etc. shouldn't have to be on the cost of having a social life at all. Even if you are an alpha male you need human connection, someone to laugh with and be human with. And to be close with your partner and have an intimate relationship and partnership built in trust, rather than being a stone cold guy... This isn't at all what I would want with the AM program.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: I have almost an obsession with sniffing out disrespect and putting people in their place because my mind thinks "it's healthy.'
IMO this doesn't sound healthy at all. You shouldn't have to go around trying to put people in their place. True respect isn't given, but earned.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: When you look at all the highly successful famous people those are people that hustled and worked 100 hours a week to reach their dream. Most of us are not chasing dreams we are chasing women or fun.
Sure you need to hustle to get to your dreams. But just because spending time with women is something I value, I don't have to become obsessed with spending time with them. There can be a balance in between. Also just because you work 100 hours a week doesn't mean you will be successfull, there is a difference between working hard and working smart.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: I haven't talked to a lot of friends for a long time.For me this is fine because I can finally focus on my own self improvement and building my empire without the need for friends. But a side of me feels I am losing human connections and experiences with people and some fun.
An alpha male shouldn't be focused on social life but maybe if Shannon can include a module in a future version to "relax, enjoy." Basically a module which makes us put an importance on dedicating some of our free time to relaxing and not always working all the day and enjoying life. Basically some work/life balance and something that pushes us to pursue healthy hobbies outside of the house for fun.
I would be miserable if I would be this kind of hermit, I was hoping that AM would make you a better man, but not an unsocial stone cold guy, rather someone with warmth who enjoyed socialising but still had his priorities straight. Shannon if you are reading this please make AM7 more like LTU where you can be happy and have a balanced life, but with the component of developing your masculinity - your ability to lead people when needed, to become a father figure and role model for other men, to have warmth and compassion, making other people laugh and feel good about themselves, etc.