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AM6 Review - AbundanceCH - 06-25-2019
Doing this review for any men out there on the fence and specially for the younger crowd.
GETTING MY MIND OFF OF WOMEN AND INTO MY OWN IMPROVEMENT
The reason I bought AM6 was to get my mind off of women and instead focused solely on my self improvement. For me true happiness was always having a girl to spend time with. I would think about girls all the time much like most men. I used to be a womanizer of sorts pumping and dumping girls I would meet online. I've dated multiple women at the same time (without them knowing) and i've had more than 10 girls in a year. I've had beautiful girls and i've also fkd some milfs in order to satisfy my sexual thirst.
DEATH OF SOCIAL LIFE/TURNING DOWN WOMEN + HIGHER STANDARDS
I wanted to stop being this way women were like an addiction. Back in the old days I couldn't go a week without having sex or going out to the clubs to dance and try to meet women. I would get anxious and depressed if I wasn't out there "having fun." It was a weekly thing for me to go out and have fun/try to meet women.
My life started to change when I ran BASE. I went from going out every weekend to losing most of my friends and not going out for months. It was a night and day difference. My only focus was to be debt free/make money and improve myself.
AM6 continued that. I lost all my desire to go out in fact I haven't gone out in months. I have literally become a hermit to the point one of the girls I was banging said my work and life balance is all screwed up. I rather just stay at home and work on my projects on my free time. I have even turned down women that wanted me (i'm currently exclusive with someone) but in the past that never stopped me from fkn girls on the side. I don't know if this is lower libido or just AM6 growing my honor/integrity.
Or maybe higher standards? Before I would fk at any opportunity and the women I have turned down are all women I would have banged without hesitation in the past. I can feel I am not as easily impressed by women as I used to be. They need to be of very high quality and by high quality they need to have much more than just beauty to impress me.
LOWER DESIRE FOR SEX/VALIDATION
My desire for sex dropped probably 80%. My desire for outside validation probably about the same. Most telling is the proof from my current relationship. I started AM6 when i met her. As time went by I became colder and colder. I went from txting all day everyday to just feeling bored with talking to her and she asking me why i'm so cold. AM6 killed my need from validation from my gf to the point she started to become worried about our relationship.
I just became so focused on my own projects that I didn't need to talk to her so much. Things have become more stable and I would say "healthy" because the version of me that met her was a more childish version that would txt a lot like some girl would. I am much more manly when it comes to my texting now it's a night and day difference. I just don't feel the need for it anymore. The need for attention from her or people in general. Texting to friends has gone down probably by 80% as well.
Some of you reading this may be thinking that none of this sounds very good. Low libido, low desire to socialize and have fun, staying at home everyday like a hermit/old man, relationship with gf becoming colder....
STANDING UP FOR MYSELF
I am much more conscious of when someone is disrespecting me and I am not afraid to stand up for myself. The old me would let it all go to avoid confrontation. Now it's the opposite I have almost an obsession with sniffing out disrespect and putting people in their place because my mind thinks "it's healthy.' Boundaries where a thing I rarely set in the old days. I went from a happy go lucky always having fun everything is chill type of guy to much more manly and serious.
MEDICINE FOR THE YOUNGER GUYS
If I had been this focused on myself rather than women and having fun when I was younger my life would be so much better in the present. I would be so much more successful and be financially much better than I am. Since I started BASE and now AM6 my finances have improved a lot and I just wished I had used these two subs when I was in my early 20s.
If you are a younger guy I would definitely recommend AM6 and I would recommend you use it soon to set you on a path to success. We are bombarded with social media/tv/music and everything under the sun to make us focus on everything but ourselves. When you look at all the highly successful famous people those are people that hustled and worked 100 hours a week to reach their dream. Most of us are not chasing dreams we are chasing women or fun.
THINGS THAT DIDN'T IMPROVE (from the AM6 list)
Circle of friends: The sub had the opposite effect it turned me into a hermit who doesn't even need to socialize. I have not manifested a new circle of loyal friends in fact it's probably the opposite I haven't talked to a lot of friends for a long time.
For me this is fine because I can finally focus on my own self improvement and building my empire without the need for friends. But a side of me feels I am losing human connections and experiences with people and some fun.
An alpha male shouldn't be focused on social life but maybe if Shannon can include a module in a future version to "relax, enjoy." Basically a module which makes us put an importance on dedicating some of our free time to relaxing and not always working all the day and enjoying life. Basically some work/life balance and something that pushes us to pursue healthy hobbies outside of the house for fun.
RE: AM6 Review - Greenduck - 06-26-2019
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: Some of you reading this may be thinking that none of this sounds very good. Low libido, low desire to socialize and have fun, staying at home everyday like a hermit/old man, relationship with gf becoming colder....
Indeed. This was exactly what I was thinking while reading this. To be an Alpha Male, being confident, leading yourself, etc. shouldn't have to be on the cost of having a social life at all. Even if you are an alpha male you need human connection, someone to laugh with and be human with. And to be close with your partner and have an intimate relationship and partnership built in trust, rather than being a stone cold guy... This isn't at all what I would want with the AM program.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: I have almost an obsession with sniffing out disrespect and putting people in their place because my mind thinks "it's healthy.'
IMO this doesn't sound healthy at all. You shouldn't have to go around trying to put people in their place. True respect isn't given, but earned.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: When you look at all the highly successful famous people those are people that hustled and worked 100 hours a week to reach their dream. Most of us are not chasing dreams we are chasing women or fun.
Sure you need to hustle to get to your dreams. But just because spending time with women is something I value, I don't have to become obsessed with spending time with them. There can be a balance in between. Also just because you work 100 hours a week doesn't mean you will be successfull, there is a difference between working hard and working smart.
(06-25-2019, 08:44 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: I haven't talked to a lot of friends for a long time.For me this is fine because I can finally focus on my own self improvement and building my empire without the need for friends. But a side of me feels I am losing human connections and experiences with people and some fun.
An alpha male shouldn't be focused on social life but maybe if Shannon can include a module in a future version to "relax, enjoy." Basically a module which makes us put an importance on dedicating some of our free time to relaxing and not always working all the day and enjoying life. Basically some work/life balance and something that pushes us to pursue healthy hobbies outside of the house for fun.
I would be miserable if I would be this kind of hermit, I was hoping that AM would make you a better man, but not an unsocial stone cold guy, rather someone with warmth who enjoyed socialising but still had his priorities straight. Shannon if you are reading this please make AM7 more like LTU where you can be happy and have a balanced life, but with the component of developing your masculinity - your ability to lead people when needed, to become a father figure and role model for other men, to have warmth and compassion, making other people laugh and feel good about themselves, etc.