AM6

[Breeze]

Question for you guys. Is it normal to lose interest when a girl online doesn't ask any questions? I was messaging this girl ages ago and then she left the site. Came back, saw me and sent me a message asking how I was. I replied, she replied but didn't ask any questions. She did say that what I I've been up to sounds interesting.

I think the thing is I dislike chasing. I expect the girl to meet me at a somewhat similar level of involvement. If I ask questions and the response has no questions I tend to lose interest. If I meet a girl socially and then later she's showing interest in another guy I'll step down. Not from a place of losing or giving up, but I lose interest in the girl. It feels demeaning to me to 'try' in the sense of trying to one-up another guy for instance.

In that above example I feel like I should be dominant, but I'd be competing with a guy who can talk so much shit haha.

I have a lot of experience online with girls. And in my experience, conversation based upon questions is the most boring of the all. The trick is to make an observation about her to spin the wheels, "I feel that you are a kind of a girl that would want to have one solid friend rather than dozens of fragile friends." If she shared something with you about her or about what she is up to. You can give your point of view about it. Tease her, make a statement about it and ask a question. Investing is pretty important in a conversation. Consider for instance, "Oh, that sounds fun!" Vs, "Oh, that sounds fun, but if I was there with you, I'd have never let you do it!" It doesn't matter she lost interest or not, it can just as easily be build up if you are having genuine fun.

I dislike chasing too, for the matter of fact, I never used to message a girl first, never. It does two things, it takes away the doubts, does she likes me or not? And, you get to maintain your frame.