06-29-2015, 04:35 AM
Question for you guys. Is it normal to lose interest when a girl online doesn't ask any questions? I was messaging this girl ages ago and then she left the site. Came back, saw me and sent me a message asking how I was. I replied, she replied but didn't ask any questions. She did say that what I I've been up to sounds interesting.
I think the thing is I dislike chasing. I expect the girl to meet me at a somewhat similar level of involvement. If I ask questions and the response has no questions I tend to lose interest. If I meet a girl socially and then later she's showing interest in another guy I'll step down. Not from a place of losing or giving up, but I lose interest in the girl. It feels demeaning to me to 'try' in the sense of trying to one-up another guy for instance.
In that above example I feel like I should be dominant, but I'd be competing with a guy who can talk so much shit haha.
I think the thing is I dislike chasing. I expect the girl to meet me at a somewhat similar level of involvement. If I ask questions and the response has no questions I tend to lose interest. If I meet a girl socially and then later she's showing interest in another guy I'll step down. Not from a place of losing or giving up, but I lose interest in the girl. It feels demeaning to me to 'try' in the sense of trying to one-up another guy for instance.
In that above example I feel like I should be dominant, but I'd be competing with a guy who can talk so much shit haha.
