06-28-2015, 05:32 AM
(06-28-2015, 02:19 AM)Andarras Wrote: haha I was talking more about physical touchy-feely. That is my core, I truly deep down love the connection that comes from touching a woman. It feels restricting to not touch them. But I don't, usually until anywhere from 5-15 minutes into the conversation when I realise I haven't touched them in ages and I better do something otherwise I'm going to get myself friend-zoned. I need to start practicing. Even just something as simple as moving in close to hear her (loud venue) then not returning to my spot. Although it would be better to move in against her shoulder so you're not right directly in her face.
Haha, my bad. :-) Anyway though, about the physical touchy-feely, reading these words, the first impress is of a conditioned fear. In particular, "I better do something otherwise I'm going to get myself friend-zoned." I can't advocate for or against it, to be honest, I don't have enough experience to take a stand here, but I am pretty sure that if you let it go of this, for the lack of better word, lets call it, fear. If you let go of this fear, you might start touching girls. Not because you need to do it, just because its fun to do so.
(06-28-2015, 02:19 AM)Andarras Wrote: Thanks for the reminder on writing. I did start daily journaling but stopped. I also have some of the belief finding and removing stuff like Lefkoe, Option Method, etc. I just haven't used them in a while. For some reason they seem too simple. Like I have a belief and I answer some questions. That's all they are. So at the end I expect fireworks. If I don't get fireworks (a sense of the belief shifting or changing) then I don't believe in it. Am I looking at those processes wrong? Are they more powerful than I give them credit?
I wouldn't say they are more or less powerful, it is subjective to each individual. If you tell me if I have to answer some questions around my belief, that will too mundane for me too. To each his own. I am sure you will find what suits you.