07-01-2013, 06:03 AM
Question Shannon or members... A BPD (to the best of my knowledge) chick keeps popping back in to my life, and I noticed during earlier stages of AM that I was more resistant to her bullshit. At times, I could care less if she was around, and I actually preferred her not be, as she was a hindrance to my stress levels.
That has subsided and I'm still struggling with this. I've done a bit of research, and most likely the problem is me not her. My best guess is that I'm still somewhat codependant and needy, else I wouldn't put up with her shit or keep letting her back into my life. I was raised by all women, as my father moved to Central America over 20 years ago. Point being, I think that's where it comes from, don't really know.
Are there any subs targeted specifically at codependency, neediness, etc..? I'm half way through stage 5, and my gut feeling is that I did the majority of the "shedding" in the first few stages.
That has subsided and I'm still struggling with this. I've done a bit of research, and most likely the problem is me not her. My best guess is that I'm still somewhat codependant and needy, else I wouldn't put up with her shit or keep letting her back into my life. I was raised by all women, as my father moved to Central America over 20 years ago. Point being, I think that's where it comes from, don't really know.
Are there any subs targeted specifically at codependency, neediness, etc..? I'm half way through stage 5, and my gut feeling is that I did the majority of the "shedding" in the first few stages.
