AM Journal

[FunkeyMonkey]

Yea I used to struggle with the same thing. And still do sometimes. But the type of vulnerability he's talking about is not wearing one's feelings on the sleeve, it's simply being genuine as to who you are without doing it to get something in return. Because that in itself shows confidence - but a natural confidence - not a forced confidence.

The deeper vulnerabilities come later in a relationship and have no place being at the start anyway. Especially when she hasn't proven herself in anyway.