03-07-2014, 03:47 AM
First, let me tell you my journey, so you can understand where my suggestion comes from.
I was (am?) suffering from a severe ED problem.
It started a few years back, and I have been struggeling with it since.
I blmaed my wife for not being sexy enough and for not being active enough.
I blamed my financial situation (I had a serious financial crash back then) for causing stress and occupying my mind too much to be mentally available for sex.
I blamed everything I could lay a hand on.
Thing was that when I "did it" alone (if you get what I mean) everything worked just fine.
At a time, after my sex life was practically dead, I started using ED meds, and they worked for a while.
But time after time the meds worked less and less.
After every failing attempt to have sex on the pills, I used to get reliefe by my self - and it worked just fine.
It was then, that I accidentally stmbled on the subliminal-shop.com website.
I purchsed the OED g3 and it showed some improvements. Not as much as I wanted, though.
When OED g5 came out I purchased it and I was shocked that not only it didnt work on me but it also cancelled al the progress achieved with OED g3 and reverting back to g3 was effectless.
As suggested by Shannon, I used Emotional Pain Relieve (a frre sub). For technical reasons I couldt use it as much as needed, but it did have a small impact.
Looking for a solution I stumbled on yourbrainonporn.com, where I read about ecxessive porn usgae and Masturbation effecting our sexual functions.
Now I am trying to overcome porn and masturbation addiction.
Like every addiction, I am sure this addiction of mine is rooted on a much deeper level. I know it is caused by something else.
My thought is that often we tend to focus on the sympthoms and not on the REAL root cause of our problems.
For example, a guy with low Alpha-Male qualities may be that way because of some deeper issues in his past life. As long as THOSE are not treated, he will remain non-alpha, no matter how much AM's he uses.
another example, as I said, every addiction is caused by a reason. be it smoking, be it drug using, be it addiction to food, every addiction. Once you fix the cause, most likely the addiction will be needless therefor easier to cure.
Bad career choices may be linked to some fears and low esteem issues.
Overweight and obesity may be linked to self esteem issues and to partal relationships
Etc.
What I am suggesting here is a sub that will help to identify the ROOT cause(s) of our problem.
A sub that will allow us to identify the REAL base issue that is causing our sympthoms.
Then, after we know what ROOT issue we should face, only then we can use the appropriate sub for fixing this root problem, and curing the sympthoms will be much easier.
Shanon, guys (and gals...), what do you think?
I was (am?) suffering from a severe ED problem.
It started a few years back, and I have been struggeling with it since.
I blmaed my wife for not being sexy enough and for not being active enough.
I blamed my financial situation (I had a serious financial crash back then) for causing stress and occupying my mind too much to be mentally available for sex.
I blamed everything I could lay a hand on.
Thing was that when I "did it" alone (if you get what I mean) everything worked just fine.
At a time, after my sex life was practically dead, I started using ED meds, and they worked for a while.
But time after time the meds worked less and less.
After every failing attempt to have sex on the pills, I used to get reliefe by my self - and it worked just fine.
It was then, that I accidentally stmbled on the subliminal-shop.com website.
I purchsed the OED g3 and it showed some improvements. Not as much as I wanted, though.
When OED g5 came out I purchased it and I was shocked that not only it didnt work on me but it also cancelled al the progress achieved with OED g3 and reverting back to g3 was effectless.
As suggested by Shannon, I used Emotional Pain Relieve (a frre sub). For technical reasons I couldt use it as much as needed, but it did have a small impact.
Looking for a solution I stumbled on yourbrainonporn.com, where I read about ecxessive porn usgae and Masturbation effecting our sexual functions.
Now I am trying to overcome porn and masturbation addiction.
Like every addiction, I am sure this addiction of mine is rooted on a much deeper level. I know it is caused by something else.
My thought is that often we tend to focus on the sympthoms and not on the REAL root cause of our problems.
For example, a guy with low Alpha-Male qualities may be that way because of some deeper issues in his past life. As long as THOSE are not treated, he will remain non-alpha, no matter how much AM's he uses.
another example, as I said, every addiction is caused by a reason. be it smoking, be it drug using, be it addiction to food, every addiction. Once you fix the cause, most likely the addiction will be needless therefor easier to cure.
Bad career choices may be linked to some fears and low esteem issues.
Overweight and obesity may be linked to self esteem issues and to partal relationships
Etc.
What I am suggesting here is a sub that will help to identify the ROOT cause(s) of our problem.
A sub that will allow us to identify the REAL base issue that is causing our sympthoms.
Then, after we know what ROOT issue we should face, only then we can use the appropriate sub for fixing this root problem, and curing the sympthoms will be much easier.
Shanon, guys (and gals...), what do you think?
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