(11-30-2020, 08:22 PM)Ampersnd Wrote:(11-29-2020, 10:01 PM)Rusty Wrote: ...that comparing men and women where it comes to body count is totally crazy.
man can sleep with thousand of women and still be able to pair bond to one woman only because there is a different chemical in his brain that release where he get attached.
where as woman.. if she sleeps with more then 2 she loses the ability to love the man for the connection, but loves him rather for the materialistic/sexual aspect of who he is...
I don't mind, but I'll leave my last response here, and you can have the last word after that, unless you say something too irresistible
Okay... "sleeping with more than 2 [partners] she loses the ability to love t he man for the connection"... first off, I'll need an academic source for that. Second, that's something that (I'll bet) 95+% of American women over 22 have done. I'll bet that 95+% of women in non-Sharia countries are the same way. So are we discounting the vast vast majority of women for agreeing to have sex a few times with a couple of partners? What responsibility to the men in our society bear in this - who, let's be honest, are tempting and pressuring her into sex as quickly as they can?
My issue is that the mathematics just don't add up. Being committed to your worldview would require that you recount the vast majority of women as hopeless sluts. And let's say that this high quality man sleeps with 1000 women; he's just increased the notch count of a 1000 women; they are now, according to you, 50% closer to being ruined; so why should he even be allowed to do this, because all he seems to be doing is ruining women's ability to bond with the next man?
"Different chemical in his brain that release where he get attached." Do you have a source for that? It sounds like you're repeating talking points from PUA/Red Pill sites. No hate, but I don't like assumptions without evidence.
Furthermore, what are you comparing American women to? "Traditional" women in other countries? They fuck, too. Probably more than two partners (*gasp*). In fact, some pickup guys go there for easy sex. Roosh V has ebooks titled "Bang [country]," teaching you how to score with women in various countries. So are they ruined to?
My last question: are you a traditionalist guy, with no past of hounding after sex, who is waiting until marriage before having sex? Because if you are, I'll cut you a bit more slack, as your worldview will at least be consistent with your actions.
Hey, sure i would love to leave my opinion just for education purpose, all with respect ofcourse for your own point of view mate.
So for your question, yes i am traditional always have been and no i did not sleep with many women, maybe around 4-5 in total.
And yep, 99% are "ruined" as in they lost the ability to pair bond with a man, why else do you think the divorce rate is growing ever higher while most of the initiatives are made by women?
here is another example :
https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuit...-stability
you can see here that the higher the partner rate the higher likely its gonna end up in divorce after 5 years.
here is another article that talks about the errosion of pair bonding due to premarital sex:
https://www.thetrumpet.com/7750-the-emot...casual-sex
there was another one that was scientificly proven, but for some reason it got deleted. i remmember reading it like last month.
anyway, i am not pointing fingers at anyone, i am just saying that the situation sucks for looking for long term partner. there is a huge abundance for women online and offline, and the fact that most of them lost the ability to pair bond just makes it much much harder to keep them.
you have to be really the top 1% of men to have one faithful to you and that as long as you keep your status high and never show weakness(that if she cannot pair bond).
