11-29-2020, 10:01 PM
(11-28-2020, 10:01 PM)Ampersnd Wrote:(11-28-2020, 06:05 PM)Rusty Wrote: they have high body count ( > 4)
LMAO "high body count"; then I must be Casanova.
I don't necessarily disagree, but I do view it as hypocritical when men themselves want a much higher body count than 4. Mathematically, women have to have a high body count if men expect to have a high body count (unless it's with the same poor woman!).
It's the 21st century; social media has women all screwy, but a bunch of men are messing it all up by acting SIMP-like. Women know that they won't go after most of them men pursuing her.
It's a wide topic that can go forever, but I think that way too much blame gets placed on women for the situation; society is a system of incentives - often a set of expectations decided by men (that women should be hot, wear makeup, and fuck them on the first day) - then when women fulfill those expectations, we turn around and call them broken for doing what we asked of them originally.
It's your thread so i don't want to hijack it,
but i'lll just say that comparing men and women where it comes to body count is totally crazy.
man can sleep with thousand of women and still be able to pair bond to one woman only because there is a different chemical in his brain that release where he get attached.
where as woman.. if she sleeps with more then 2 she loses the ability to love the man for the connection, but loves him rather for the materialistic/sexual aspect of who he is.
and once he goes broke, she dumps him.
yea its not entirely women fault ofcourse, but these expectations are not for women, but for slutty women.
real high quality high caliber women would never sleep on the first date or have casual relationship because they are aware how it's gonna fuck up their mind later where she craves intimicay.
my ex was very affectionate for example but she lacked the ability to really pair bond. which is why when i lost my job she was gone aswell , so anyway just becareful out there