09-14-2016, 05:04 AM
(09-14-2016, 04:51 AM)Lucius Wrote: Haha! This reminds me of a conversation from "The Game":
"Are you waiting for the toilet?" I asked.
"Sort of," he replied nervously. "Go ahead."
I gave him a quizzical look. "Can I tell you something?" he asked.
"Sure."
"I have a lot of trouble peeing beside guys in urinals. When there's another guy standing there, I can't ***** pee. Even if I'm peeing already and
a guy walks up, I stop. And then I just stand there all nervous and shit."
"No one's judging you."
"Yeah," he said. "I remember about a year ago, a guy and I were trying to piss in these urinals that were right next to each other, but we both just ended up standing there. We stood there for around two minutes, recognizing each other's pee-shyness, until I zipped up and went to another
bathroom." He paused. "The guy never thanked me for changing bathrooms that day."
I have absolutely no clue of what to say in both situations if it happens to me. I need to work on my wit just in case - or just listen as Sarge advised. lol
Everybody has little things like that about stuff. I just tell them that, tell them something similar about you in return to let them know not to freak out so much. People really appreciate knowing they aren't the only one with random hangups. Being real, and chill, will go a LONG way.