04-02-2018, 02:24 PM
My outlook is improving a lot. I've been listening to a lot of podcasts with music producers and their journey towards turning music into a full time thing. I'm determined to do this for myself as well. I'm seeing how defeatist some people are and how that rubbed off on me. I'm visualizing success now, doing what I love to do without all the excuses and fears attached to it.
Before I had an attitude of if it happens it happens. I was working on my stuff half heartedly, not really believing it could take me anywhere. So I thought more "realistically". I've come to realize being "realistic" is just an excuse to accept the status quo and not push boundaries. And I was so meh about it because I was afraid of going for it all the way.
I believe it will come to me because I'll never stop working towards it or give up. Obviously this isn't success with women, but this same mentality is presenting itself in that area as well. None of this stuff is impossible, I just have to throw away all the fears and excuses that hold me back.
Before I had an attitude of if it happens it happens. I was working on my stuff half heartedly, not really believing it could take me anywhere. So I thought more "realistically". I've come to realize being "realistic" is just an excuse to accept the status quo and not push boundaries. And I was so meh about it because I was afraid of going for it all the way.
I believe it will come to me because I'll never stop working towards it or give up. Obviously this isn't success with women, but this same mentality is presenting itself in that area as well. None of this stuff is impossible, I just have to throw away all the fears and excuses that hold me back.
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