03-07-2018, 04:49 AM
Trying something new, just going completely hands off with the sub and not caring what it's doing or how it's doing it. I've noticed I block my own success when I try to consciously intervene more and get negative pushback. Everything is being handled in an efficient and thorough way, more than my conscious mind can figure out.
On tinder noticed myself trying to figure out how to get girls attracted to me. Then I realized this is confirming a reality where I'm pursuing and promptly let that one go. I think the issue here is EVERYTHING points towards guys needing to pursue and it's taking a bit to completely break that whole reality. But I'm definitely on board with it. I want to completely flip the whole dynamics when it comes to dating and whatnot. Don't care if others think it's not alpha or manly, I think it'll be fun.
On tinder noticed myself trying to figure out how to get girls attracted to me. Then I realized this is confirming a reality where I'm pursuing and promptly let that one go. I think the issue here is EVERYTHING points towards guys needing to pursue and it's taking a bit to completely break that whole reality. But I'm definitely on board with it. I want to completely flip the whole dynamics when it comes to dating and whatnot. Don't care if others think it's not alpha or manly, I think it'll be fun.
INFP