09-22-2017, 07:05 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-22-2017, 07:06 PM by Determined.)
(09-22-2017, 11:12 AM)Daredevil Wrote: For me A Good Social Sub Has
1. Glamor
2. Charisma
3. Celebrity Effect
4. Hypnotic Eye Gaze
5. Aura of Comfort and Dominance
6. Good Command of Language
7. Develop a Magnetic and Harmonious voice
8. Have high status vocal tonality
9. Networking and Connecting with other people
10. Small conversation starter, and ability to start conversations with anyone at anytime and anywhere.
11. Become the center of attention everywhere you go.
12. Develop your own Effective Social and Communication style that best suits you and gives you the best results.
13. Make people feel better after you are done talking to them than they were before.
14. Talking Autopilot/Flow State in Speaking
15. Ability to give speeches off the cuff
16. Master Debating Skills
17. Relationship Management
18. Ability to Work with enemies
19. DMSI Sniper on Crowd or Person you are talking to
20. Ability to create a following of you.
The heart of socialising is connecting with people. The faster and deeper the connections are, the more adept the socialiser. The things I highlighted in bold are counter to that objective. Having a celebrity effect and displaying dominance can be quite intimidating. Being the center of attention everywhere (while a nice idea) can also be counter productive when the context is unsuitable - such as at a funeral or taking a girl out on a date.
The things I underlined are valuable to socialising and would fit well in a social skills sub.