08-26-2014, 11:17 PM
Stage 3, Day 7
Got up late, ran some errands, went to the studio; all that's left now is vocals and mixing, and the song will be done. Went to a small house party, and went home.
People saying that I'm too theoretical, that may be true, to an extent; when I'm writing on this forum, I'm turning inward and reflecting over ideas on how I can improve myself, all while posting actions I've taken.
Usually, when I'm taking in information, I'm already taking action on the subject; for example, I read plenty of books on talent acquisition, excellence, becoming an expert in your field, relating to my guitar, voice, and overall musician journey, WHILE taking actions (normally practicing) that will make me a better musician.
If I just read the books, then that would be foolish, and unproductive, because it makes reference to nothing, with hints of endless perfectionism. But sometimes, I'm could be talking only about the books I'm reading on this forum, without mentioning the rather consistent practice that goes on in the background. It's rather tedious to post "I practiced" every time I practiced, though I often do.
That said, I'm posting observations and realizations towards actions I've ALREADY taken in my dating/sex life. That doesn't mean I'm not taking action; it just means that I already did something, and my interpretation of it will come second, and sometimes, the interpretation is all you see.
To summarize, I've had 3 dates in the last 10 days; 2 of those dates had a sexual outcome. For someone who's not EVER had that many dates in that little time, this can't be chalked up to "thinking too much" or "not taking action".
I've only just begun Stage 3 out of a total six stages, and my ability to relate with women will only improve and intensify, so I don't see why that number won't increase, along with my desire to socialize, meet, interact, and seduce these women.
Until that desire builds naturally, I'll "take more action" when it makes sense to take more action, like, oh, I don't know, when the next school year starts (in 6 days), and boat loads of 18, 19, and 20 year old women come flooding to my university. Then, just maybe, I'll naturally want to "take more action".
Got up late, ran some errands, went to the studio; all that's left now is vocals and mixing, and the song will be done. Went to a small house party, and went home.
People saying that I'm too theoretical, that may be true, to an extent; when I'm writing on this forum, I'm turning inward and reflecting over ideas on how I can improve myself, all while posting actions I've taken.
Usually, when I'm taking in information, I'm already taking action on the subject; for example, I read plenty of books on talent acquisition, excellence, becoming an expert in your field, relating to my guitar, voice, and overall musician journey, WHILE taking actions (normally practicing) that will make me a better musician.
If I just read the books, then that would be foolish, and unproductive, because it makes reference to nothing, with hints of endless perfectionism. But sometimes, I'm could be talking only about the books I'm reading on this forum, without mentioning the rather consistent practice that goes on in the background. It's rather tedious to post "I practiced" every time I practiced, though I often do.
That said, I'm posting observations and realizations towards actions I've ALREADY taken in my dating/sex life. That doesn't mean I'm not taking action; it just means that I already did something, and my interpretation of it will come second, and sometimes, the interpretation is all you see.
To summarize, I've had 3 dates in the last 10 days; 2 of those dates had a sexual outcome. For someone who's not EVER had that many dates in that little time, this can't be chalked up to "thinking too much" or "not taking action".
I've only just begun Stage 3 out of a total six stages, and my ability to relate with women will only improve and intensify, so I don't see why that number won't increase, along with my desire to socialize, meet, interact, and seduce these women.
Until that desire builds naturally, I'll "take more action" when it makes sense to take more action, like, oh, I don't know, when the next school year starts (in 6 days), and boat loads of 18, 19, and 20 year old women come flooding to my university. Then, just maybe, I'll naturally want to "take more action".
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