To be clear, I didn't go "by the way, it's very important that you DON'T PLAY GAMES! Got it?"
What I did instead was (after asking for her number like this "I'd really like to have your phone number" and after typing it in) say: "I find it's much simpler to ask for things directly and not have to worry about playing games because I find that complicates things, so anyways, I'll call you so that you have me, and yadda yadda..."
I made my point and showed a boundary without being weird about it. Have a nice day **flies away
Stage 2, Day 17
Worked most of the day, and then busked. My playing is still a bit sloppy, and I'm getting paid very little. Gotta figure out how to fix that. Others are still getting paid pretty well.
I took the roughly 10$ in my case, and got about 10 minutes with a hand reading psychic in the same market. He told me several things about my life's purpose and my direction in life, and it sounds pretty good. I wrote most of the points down after the fact, so that I have something objective to refer to 5 years from now. It was just something that I want to try out.
I got home and practiced some more. Now it's time for bed; I'll have to work on writing song, and on my business later.
Edit: I just signed up for FastSpring, the digital fulfillment platform. So that's a step I took before bed. Time to meditate!
What I did instead was (after asking for her number like this "I'd really like to have your phone number" and after typing it in) say: "I find it's much simpler to ask for things directly and not have to worry about playing games because I find that complicates things, so anyways, I'll call you so that you have me, and yadda yadda..."
I made my point and showed a boundary without being weird about it. Have a nice day **flies away
Stage 2, Day 17
Worked most of the day, and then busked. My playing is still a bit sloppy, and I'm getting paid very little. Gotta figure out how to fix that. Others are still getting paid pretty well.
I took the roughly 10$ in my case, and got about 10 minutes with a hand reading psychic in the same market. He told me several things about my life's purpose and my direction in life, and it sounds pretty good. I wrote most of the points down after the fact, so that I have something objective to refer to 5 years from now. It was just something that I want to try out.
I got home and practiced some more. Now it's time for bed; I'll have to work on writing song, and on my business later.
Edit: I just signed up for FastSpring, the digital fulfillment platform. So that's a step I took before bed. Time to meditate!
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