(03-17-2018, 04:33 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote:(03-17-2018, 04:13 AM)Ymiraku Wrote: Not sure but I think I am experience what others here are referring to as 'reversal resistance'. I feel like I am regressing. My confidence has gone down, I feel anxious now when I see attractive women, i'm getting virtually no attention or looks from attractive women. I don't feel masculine or sexy when I go out into public.
Not happy.
Should I persist with the subliminal? will it eventually get through to me and start working?
Why do you say you are regressing? Before using 3.2, were you getting attention or looks from women in public? I noticed in your journals from a few days ago that you were getting looks though.
Also if you want to reach a particular level with women, what other alternative is there? To stop using DMSI and quit? This is why I'm asking, cause I'm trying to understand your thought process as to why you're thinking of stopping.
The other thing is that are you working on yourself in the mean time other than using DMSI? Are you working out in the gym, dressing better, focusing on career, eating better, have passions and hobbies, etc? Do you go out to socialise with women? I'm just trying to get an idea of where you're at, so hopefully we can figure out the problem. I mean, you're expecting something to happen for you very soon, and maybe you need to be more patient. The other guys who are getting a lotta success already, a lot of them were already getting a lotta sex pre-DMSI, so that's why they are responding to DMSI a lot faster. Since I know you're reading my journals too, you know it's half working for me, lol. I get massive IOIs all the time, but that's because I've been on a lotta dates, since I've been actively approaching girls for the past two years or so. If I were using 3.2 before I got into pick up, back when I was still a shy nervous wreck, I would be getting way less attention from females right now, without a doubt. Bottom line is don't compare yourself with other guys. Shannon did say somewhere that 3.2 will still take longer for the majority of users. Just be patient, man. I'd say keep running it and keep working on yourself.
And please cut out masturbating too, cause it makes a world of difference. Another reason why I'm getting so many looks in public is because of semen retention. I'm on day 119 now. All that accumulation of sexual energy, my aura is hitting women everywhere I go. No wonder I keep getting looks. Perhaps you might wanna take no masturbation more seriously for the long term, and see how you progress.
Before 3.2 I was going through a breakup with my girlfriend (now ex). I felt like I wasn't getting what I wanted out of life and the relationship was not making me or her happy. I decided to start making some changes. I quit smoking and started working out more and cut back on my alcohol consumption. I stopped watching porn, which was a very bad habit for me. I also started doing affirmations again which I had not done for several years. I started getting more attention and looks from girls and started feeling more confident and dominant in my interactions but at the same time I was and still am somewhat heart broken and in pain inside.
The pain has lessened now and I don't plan to go back to my old habits, I am trying to turn a new leaf. I decided to look up subliminal shop because years ago I had a friend called Ryan who tried alot of their subliminals and had some success. So I thought I would try also. I stopped doing my new affirmations and decided to start this program.
At this stage I was feeling some inner turmoil. Whilst I felt confident in public I was still hurting inside and felt beaten down by everything that happened during the relationship. I have moved back into my family home and started working close to full time hours. At first I felt I was benefiting from the subliminal, but in the last week it feels like I have regressed somewhat. What more can I say. Maybe it was not a good time for me to embark on subliminals. Maybe what I really need right now is healing and other changes in my lifestyle. I desire sex with lots of different women, so do most men. But maybe that's not what we all really need straight away.