07-30-2010, 10:16 PM
I am noticing a bit more eye contact lately, I think maybe all the other things I've been doing are helping unblock whatever was blocking the subliminals. I'm on stage 2 about 11 days out from stage 3. I don't 'feel' any different from the subs which I think is probably the blocks but I do notice a little more eye contact. Some women smile at me. Feeling a bit more confident too although I still have that overwhelming fear that settles after a while. I went to a small gathering and there were two girls I didn't know. I was thinking to myself that I need to go and say hi, didn't really have an opportunity so when I had to find the toilets I walked over and said hi. Not something I normally do.
But yeah I noticed way less eye contact from girls when I went into the venue as opposed to when I'm wandering around the streets/trains etc. So do the subs tackle this eventually?
What else do you guys do? Do you mentally think positive thoughts? I don't feel negative and down all that often, but I think it's probably there just repressed/hidden.
At the moment I'm working on my sexual magnetism and energy to see what happens. Because this is essentially our 'natural' state and everything else is added on top until it's buried and all the girls sense is the vibe/energy from the crap on top. haha my female friend told me last night that I seemed shy but confident
Which is a start but I want to be masculine and confident. Take the shy aspect and turn that into masculine presence.
Do you guys know any grounding visualisations? This is apparently the best way for men to develop their presence, by grounding themselves to the earth which is okay when you're standing still but what about when you're walking? And then how do you know when your energy is in your head? When I was at the clubs I could feel a tightening sensation in the middle of my ribs.
That's my problem, I have very weak presence/masculinity which I believe is why the subliminals aren't having the full impact. I did find a guided meditation about attracting women. It's very simple, gets you to go insde three versions of yourself. One is a 'warrior', one is an 'honourable type' (doing the right thing etc) and the other is a 'fun' kind which is about magnetism and drawing women in. Then you imagine all three merging with you and integrating into your dna and body.
The sexual energy meditation seemed quite interesting. I could actually feel a slight buzz through my body.
But yeah I noticed way less eye contact from girls when I went into the venue as opposed to when I'm wandering around the streets/trains etc. So do the subs tackle this eventually?
What else do you guys do? Do you mentally think positive thoughts? I don't feel negative and down all that often, but I think it's probably there just repressed/hidden.
At the moment I'm working on my sexual magnetism and energy to see what happens. Because this is essentially our 'natural' state and everything else is added on top until it's buried and all the girls sense is the vibe/energy from the crap on top. haha my female friend told me last night that I seemed shy but confident
Which is a start but I want to be masculine and confident. Take the shy aspect and turn that into masculine presence.Do you guys know any grounding visualisations? This is apparently the best way for men to develop their presence, by grounding themselves to the earth which is okay when you're standing still but what about when you're walking? And then how do you know when your energy is in your head? When I was at the clubs I could feel a tightening sensation in the middle of my ribs.
That's my problem, I have very weak presence/masculinity which I believe is why the subliminals aren't having the full impact. I did find a guided meditation about attracting women. It's very simple, gets you to go insde three versions of yourself. One is a 'warrior', one is an 'honourable type' (doing the right thing etc) and the other is a 'fun' kind which is about magnetism and drawing women in. Then you imagine all three merging with you and integrating into your dna and body.
The sexual energy meditation seemed quite interesting. I could actually feel a slight buzz through my body.
