08-31-2020, 01:52 AM
(08-30-2020, 04:05 PM)Shannon Wrote:(08-30-2020, 12:15 PM)samba99 Wrote: I am not addicted to porn nor do I find it very enjoyable lately, especially when running DMSI, the desire to watch porn almost none. But I did watch alot of it in the past. And sometimes I do get the urge to watch when I don't have sex for a while.
I know how harmful porn can be to the brain and our psychology.
So here is the trick/suggestion that came to me.
I kept telling and suggesting to my brain that it was me who was having great sex and great moments with different sexy women. All the videos (of porn) I watched it was me and not some random dude.
It's just a trick I did. Not even for a long time. And guess what. It somehow worked. Last time I was with a friend of mine. I did perform really well. And she gave me pretty nice bj that I see in porn only. I was behaving like porn stars.
Not sure if this suggestion came to me from DMSI or it was just me utilizing my past. But the suggestion came while I was in the shower. During my days using DMSI
Now this all could be DMSI doing
But Shannon, is it possible to use past porn experience as a positive investment in our sexual performance??
That said, you can try to use memories of past exposure to porn as programming by re-framing it in the right way, as you said you did. But that brings with it the issue that most porn is fake, and most men/women don't really act like that or want that. By using pron to program yourself that way, you're either going to need to use porn that reflects positive sexual experiences or you run the risk of removing all the "real" women from your life and being left with only those who, like you, believe the porn is real instead of acted. That's not healthy.
EXACTLY my thoughts shannon! I thought even though this may slightly worked for me it may be a major flag to others due to the content they are actually viewing.
So, yes, in my case, It was more like 'soft porn' and regarding its being fake thats true, but I dont care less, if my mind wants to believe that it is possible to perform in such a way in reality. let it be.
Anyways it was just a thought to improve the program in a way that can utilize 'positively' past porn material. I say past because as of now the program successfully stopped me from watching porn, in a convincing way.