03-26-2017, 09:05 AM
(03-26-2017, 08:42 AM)Sickologist Wrote: RT just nailed it. That's exactly what I've been trying to say. I said DMSI hasn't yielded the results or should I say in the way that I want it to be. And I clearly said in my original post that I can only speak for myself.
Which simply boils down to; I'm not interested in healing or having females trying to seduce me. That's what DMSI is about, I'm not.
When I look at the type of story telling I resonate with, the main guy is always flawed, imbalanced, yet he is irresistible to women. I believe that male and female dynamics should be based on the man being the messed up one while the woman is desperate to change him into something he's not. You'll see this in so many movies, I believe the basis for this is an inherent blend of nurturing and masochistic behavior from females. They also melt when they behold the cocky and charming kid on the playground. The way I see it, there's little intrigue to a perfectly healed man who's making all the seemingly right moves. It's okay to be human and go off the rails from time to time. That's my prerogative. If you see things differently, that's cool. The world would be boring if everybody was alike. Let me finish this by saying I sleep very comfortable at night knowing they write Taylor Swift songs about guys like me.
I really resonate with this, especially the part in bold. While I do expect women to seduce me (as they used to try to when I was a lad), I also like to keep my pain and torment in tact for a woman to sooth.
For me, I guess women seducing me is part of my flaw (that I am unwilling or unable to do it myself).
Men of value are men of intrigue.