(11-03-2015, 04:02 PM)AlphaMind Wrote: To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

(11-03-2015, 04:51 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-6154-post-88698.html#pid88698

(11-03-2015, 04:02 PM)AlphaMind Wrote: To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

There was one girl that was very clean, then she took a trip to Africa and fell in love with it's cuisine. The food she continued to eat gave her a unique body odor that I tried to tolerate and when I confronted her about it, she told me she enjoys the flavors and spices of the food too much to give it up. We parted. Just want to point out that diet plays a role in how we smell. A good example is smelling the scent of alcohol of someone that has had a few too many and starts to perspire.

(11-04-2015, 10:45 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: I'm sure 'recreational' sex has different meanings for different people. The way you state it is to have sex for fun rather than to start/expand the family.

(11-04-2015, 12:42 AM)AlphaMind Wrote: Human odor produce pheromone that attract the opposite sex or the same sex. As far as people keep their body clean, it would be not much of a problem.

Please shave your hair, specially crotch and armpit, regardless of what sex you are (male/female). Everybody should keep their body clean and less hair as possible.

Some people are indeed asexual, or prioritize things more than sex. Everyone could approach this negating action of sex as fear, religion, etc. It doesn't matter what, but what's important is understanding what your desire really is.

TO some extent having abundant of sex seems beneficial, but TO some extent it's just for having fun. Either way it is your choice in which way you will approach this matter, but be sure to open up regarding sex. It is not taboo (social programming programmed this). It is just an exchange of fluid, LOL

(11-03-2015, 10:51 PM)Alpha360 Wrote:

(11-03-2015, 04:51 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-6154-post-88698.html#pid88698

(11-03-2015, 04:02 PM)AlphaMind Wrote: To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

There was one girl that was very clean, then she took a trip to Africa and fell in love with it's cuisine. The food she continued to eat gave her a unique body odor that I tried to tolerate and when I confronted her about it, she told me she enjoys the flavors and spices of the food too much to give it up. We parted. Just want to point out that diet plays a role in how we smell. A good example is smelling the scent of alcohol of someone that has had a few too many and starts to perspire.

How you perceive an odor can change so easily, even to shit smell you can make you brain think it is enjoyable. Just go to the toilet and after some times you won't even the smell anymore. To reject someone because his new diet make him smell bad is an ignorant behavior to me. It's based on an emotional reaction that can be easily controlled, changed. Just think straight for some second is that really an intolerable smell or you are just overacting?

It's one reason people have such a reaction when they smell themselves down there in my opinion. They changed their natural reaction to body odor. Just look at the dogs and cat when they smell each other do they have stupid reaction like us. They are just smarter than us sometimes.

And I'm not even talking about pheromones here. Natural body odor are supposed to turn us on. My ex told me she loves dick smell and smelling armpit (it wasn't easy to make her admit that at first though)

(11-04-2015, 11:30 AM)diamiteo Wrote: SEX...

Where do I start? I have grown up to believe that is sex taboo. A dirty, disgusting thing. Evil. And it still shows off in my thoughts. When I think about people of my country indulging in a sexual intercourse, I feel disgusted. Long way to heal this madness inside my head.

(11-03-2015, 04:51 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-6154-post-88698.html#pid88698

(11-03-2015, 04:02 PM)AlphaMind Wrote: To some extent it is indeed true that fear is our best and worse enemy to face, but this problem isn't applied to everyone.

Take sex for example. Some people are indeed don't want premarital sex. Not because of religion or any social construct that exist, but because they themselves do not want it. Thus it is prudent to learn your own self to really understands who you are. Don't conform with trend (fear, fear, fear).

Some people want to wait until marriage. I wanted to, then I found out I was born out of wedlock. I was pissed off at my Mother for making me believe she was a virgin until she got married. She did get married when I was two years old to a guy that was willing to adopt me and raise me as my own.

I would have started right away given there were a lot of promiscuous girls in my neighborhood. Then my fear of being too small held me back for a few months until it happened. Then I realized girls joke about penis size as much as guys joke about breast size.

My biggest issue for avoiding sex is body odor "down there". Somehow if that is an issue with the woman I am with, we shower together before sex. I use the shower as a form of foreplay.

There was one girl that was very clean, then she took a trip to Africa and fell in love with it's cuisine. The food she continued to eat gave her a unique body odor that I tried to tolerate and when I confronted her about it, she told me she enjoys the flavors and spices of the food too much to give it up. We parted. Just want to point out that diet plays a role in how we smell. A good example is smelling the scent of alcohol of someone that has had a few too many and starts to perspire.

(11-04-2015, 11:57 AM)waahbeta Wrote: Simply put from your post,
Ur first paragraph states that u kind of hate or dislike sex due to your personal grudge. Your last paragraph is jus an excuse for not having it ...
Yeah even I've read somewhere that u perspire the odour of alcohol. But that's just it.
Odour won't change with the change in diet.
It just changes the mouth smell say garlic or onion for example.
M an hyperhydrosis patient (excess sweat) , and searched a lot on sweat and the glands and that's for sure about the odour.
About the odour down there, maintain hygiene and it won't be smelly. Although the crotch/pubic area has an aroma/odour of its own.

(11-04-2015, 11:30 AM)diamiteo Wrote: SEX...

Where do I start? I have grown up to believe that sex is taboo. A dirty, disgusting thing. Evil. And it still shows off in my thoughts. When I think about people of my country indulging in a sexual intercourse, I feel disgusted. Long way to heal this madness inside my head.