09-30-2016, 12:15 AM
I didn't see this until now, I suppose that's directed to me. I was shocked to see this randomly, so I'll try to straighten this out right now.
I said that because you did have sex with women in the past compared to me who hasn't. So that's more "success" than me in the lense of what we were talking about: women/sex. I don't see anything wrong in my statement. It wasn't at all to discredit anything in your journey or past, it's to speak of your triumphs or triumphs in SPITE of problems, or overcoming them, growing, or whatever you want to call it. I have no idea where that perception of me doing that comes from. I only said you had success with women before the sub, which you seemed to and have talked about, so I'm confused by the reaction. You seem to think that twice now I've discredited something when I haven't at all and never said any such thing suggesting that. I was saying you've had more success with women than me, which is true and valid and I was happy for you for that. In fact I said you give DMSI more credit than it may deserve due to you having success with women beforehand compared to most of us, I don't know how that's taken as some kind of insult by you. I honesty don't see where the problem lies.
Anyway, I agree on DMSI doing it's thing and chilling out thing, hopefully in time it delivers for everyone.
I said that because you did have sex with women in the past compared to me who hasn't. So that's more "success" than me in the lense of what we were talking about: women/sex. I don't see anything wrong in my statement. It wasn't at all to discredit anything in your journey or past, it's to speak of your triumphs or triumphs in SPITE of problems, or overcoming them, growing, or whatever you want to call it. I have no idea where that perception of me doing that comes from. I only said you had success with women before the sub, which you seemed to and have talked about, so I'm confused by the reaction. You seem to think that twice now I've discredited something when I haven't at all and never said any such thing suggesting that. I was saying you've had more success with women than me, which is true and valid and I was happy for you for that. In fact I said you give DMSI more credit than it may deserve due to you having success with women beforehand compared to most of us, I don't know how that's taken as some kind of insult by you. I honesty don't see where the problem lies.
Anyway, I agree on DMSI doing it's thing and chilling out thing, hopefully in time it delivers for everyone.