07-10-2021, 04:41 PM
[WM Stage 1 - Day 2] – Action Time & Still Running Thoughts
Wassup!
Woke up kind of like yesterday with the mind wanting to engage.
It feels as if my mind is restless since swapping over to WM.
I can sense that there are a lot of things going on in my head but they are not clear to me.
Just a sensation of lots of activity.
And an urge to engage with something.
But at the same time, I feel like I want to have more peace because of all the activity going on.
So it makes me more reserved.
The effect of me being more reserved has been girls reacting to me more when I do say something or when I am in their presence.
Not sure if that's supposed to be part of the effect with WM.
The constant activity I can handle for some time and maybe I'll even adapt to it but right now, I feel it's not a healthy thing in the long run, as it makes it harder to have a sense of deep peace/relaxtion.
And just like exercising, you need rest to restore yourself and grow.
=================================
Went out after a too big steak dinner.
Lots of people around, enjoying socializing and only 1.5 hour left before everything closes down bc of restriction (police came later to close afterparty)
My goal for tonight was meeting 3 girls/groups.
I try to set it low so we don't fuck ourselves up emotionally and mentally.
First thing I noticed was, since swapping over to WM from AM, I'm less driven when I see a girl.
AM would make me feel a bit on the proactive/aggressive and more sexual side when around women *after I shifted mindset to seek discomfort. Before doing that, I was emotionally empty.
WM seems to make me more reserved and a bit more on the side of emotionally empty.
I'm more introspective throughout the day and use less energy on what's going on, on the outside around me.
So, I walk around the little strip of bars for the first 30-45 minutes, just drinking a soda.
It felt comfortable to just stand and feel the vibe with most people sitting at tables in groups.
Eventually I felt it was time to move around because I felt too comfortable.
Ended up talking to a girl behind a stand for 5-10 minutes and it got the boat started. *didn't count as 1 as she's a hired gun
Situation – still most people sitting in groups around tables.
I see 2 girls at a table and walk directly over, asking how their night is.
Not the best thing to say for starters but they were open enough and I got consent to sit and talk with them until their friend comes back.
That lasted for 5-10 minutes as well. They also reacted to me whenever I said something but they were closed off to engage in something more and they all smoked :/.
Friend eventually came and after a bit I left.
1 Done!
I walk into one of the bars, in the queue I was reading about a drink and there was a blonde in white dress on my right side.
Very naturally, I asked her about the drink as I wasn't sure about it.
She wasn't local, so I repeated and she asked "you asking me what a kiss is?"
Actually a great opportunity to test the waters.
Something like, "yeah.. I've never kissed a girl before" would be fun for a start.
Instead I logically told her what I really said because I was actually curious.
(And this tells you that you don't have to know everything if you want to be more intimate with girls.. just be awake and listen to her signs.)
We talked a little more and eventually we got our drinks and parted ways. She invited to join her table later.
2 Done!
I walk to other area of the bar and see two girls sitting in a long table, clearly waiting for friends while they were chatting.
I don't remember what I said but they were open to talk and I was a bit in the zone by then, words flowing out of my mouth more naturally.
Eventually their friends come and it was like a group of 6-7 people with only 1 guy with a girlfriend in the group.
We chatted for around 10 minutes and it was actually interesting because there were many nationalities.
Eventually the place was closing and we moved outside.
More girls joined the group and there were not enough chairs or tables.
So I eventually left, feeling high and in the zone.
But thinking back, I should have gotten some contacts to go out another time in the area with some others, instead of solo.
(On the other hand solo is more challenging and builds a more solid foundation of confidence.)
Gotta be more awake for a few things...
Anyway..
3 Done
I'm feeling high and in the zone. I see a guy playing chess but he's by himself right now. So I asked to take a quick match with him.
It wasn't as quick as I had hoped, he was slower, but throughout the match, I could feel my high slowly fade.
I won but my high was gone.
It wasn't' a big deal as I set goal for 3 girls/groups and we reached it.
It's more of a learning lesson.
Anyway.. that's it for this update.
My initial plan was to update once every Sunday but it seems like sometimes, my head gets more clear after I write the experiences I've had down.
So enjoy!
And be great!
Looking forward to what else WM have in store – hopefully it isn't solely focused on attracting women but also a desire to be more proactive with women!
-LM
Wassup!
Woke up kind of like yesterday with the mind wanting to engage.
It feels as if my mind is restless since swapping over to WM.
I can sense that there are a lot of things going on in my head but they are not clear to me.
Just a sensation of lots of activity.
And an urge to engage with something.
But at the same time, I feel like I want to have more peace because of all the activity going on.
So it makes me more reserved.
The effect of me being more reserved has been girls reacting to me more when I do say something or when I am in their presence.
Not sure if that's supposed to be part of the effect with WM.
The constant activity I can handle for some time and maybe I'll even adapt to it but right now, I feel it's not a healthy thing in the long run, as it makes it harder to have a sense of deep peace/relaxtion.
And just like exercising, you need rest to restore yourself and grow.
=================================
Went out after a too big steak dinner.
Lots of people around, enjoying socializing and only 1.5 hour left before everything closes down bc of restriction (police came later to close afterparty)
My goal for tonight was meeting 3 girls/groups.
I try to set it low so we don't fuck ourselves up emotionally and mentally.
First thing I noticed was, since swapping over to WM from AM, I'm less driven when I see a girl.
AM would make me feel a bit on the proactive/aggressive and more sexual side when around women *after I shifted mindset to seek discomfort. Before doing that, I was emotionally empty.
WM seems to make me more reserved and a bit more on the side of emotionally empty.
I'm more introspective throughout the day and use less energy on what's going on, on the outside around me.
So, I walk around the little strip of bars for the first 30-45 minutes, just drinking a soda.
It felt comfortable to just stand and feel the vibe with most people sitting at tables in groups.
Eventually I felt it was time to move around because I felt too comfortable.
Ended up talking to a girl behind a stand for 5-10 minutes and it got the boat started. *didn't count as 1 as she's a hired gun
Situation – still most people sitting in groups around tables.
I see 2 girls at a table and walk directly over, asking how their night is.
Not the best thing to say for starters but they were open enough and I got consent to sit and talk with them until their friend comes back.
That lasted for 5-10 minutes as well. They also reacted to me whenever I said something but they were closed off to engage in something more and they all smoked :/.
Friend eventually came and after a bit I left.
1 Done!
I walk into one of the bars, in the queue I was reading about a drink and there was a blonde in white dress on my right side.
Very naturally, I asked her about the drink as I wasn't sure about it.
She wasn't local, so I repeated and she asked "you asking me what a kiss is?"
Actually a great opportunity to test the waters.
Something like, "yeah.. I've never kissed a girl before" would be fun for a start.
Instead I logically told her what I really said because I was actually curious.
(And this tells you that you don't have to know everything if you want to be more intimate with girls.. just be awake and listen to her signs.)
We talked a little more and eventually we got our drinks and parted ways. She invited to join her table later.
2 Done!
I walk to other area of the bar and see two girls sitting in a long table, clearly waiting for friends while they were chatting.
I don't remember what I said but they were open to talk and I was a bit in the zone by then, words flowing out of my mouth more naturally.
Eventually their friends come and it was like a group of 6-7 people with only 1 guy with a girlfriend in the group.
We chatted for around 10 minutes and it was actually interesting because there were many nationalities.
Eventually the place was closing and we moved outside.
More girls joined the group and there were not enough chairs or tables.
So I eventually left, feeling high and in the zone.
But thinking back, I should have gotten some contacts to go out another time in the area with some others, instead of solo.
(On the other hand solo is more challenging and builds a more solid foundation of confidence.)
Gotta be more awake for a few things...
Anyway..
3 Done
I'm feeling high and in the zone. I see a guy playing chess but he's by himself right now. So I asked to take a quick match with him.
It wasn't as quick as I had hoped, he was slower, but throughout the match, I could feel my high slowly fade.
I won but my high was gone.
It wasn't' a big deal as I set goal for 3 girls/groups and we reached it.
It's more of a learning lesson.
Anyway.. that's it for this update.
My initial plan was to update once every Sunday but it seems like sometimes, my head gets more clear after I write the experiences I've had down.
So enjoy!
And be great!
Looking forward to what else WM have in store – hopefully it isn't solely focused on attracting women but also a desire to be more proactive with women!
-LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
